Yeah, after several years of an all-female household, my husband and stepson moved in and it took me a while to figure out why they needed special soaps and shampoo and stuff. I had gotten into the habit of automatically buying everything in rose flavor without realizing it!
K. Jacobs, I agree that the writing is confusing. The 18-year-old died 12 years earlier, so she was actually born 30 years prior to the events in the story.
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