It’s practically mandatory to join the site (at least for the time
being). If you’re not
on Facebook you’re a lot like Schrodinger’s Cat—no one knows for sure if you’re
alive or dead.
Here are a few tips for being interesting while Facebooking. If we all
have to be on it,
we might as well make it as painless (and as interesting) as possible.
People mainly look at your pictures, you might as well put your best
face forward. If
you don’t like how you look in pictures, smile.
Try to be less repetitive with your posts. One baby, cat, or paleo-diet
plate of steamed kale picture a week? Okay. One an hour? You shall be blocked and
Don’t get all political. If I agree with you, I ignore you. If
I disagree, I think less of
you. No one wins until we actually go to the polls.
Do not become a spam factory. It makes you seem like less of a friend
and more of a
Do not antagonize or yell at, scold or berate people in public forums.
It’s tacky and
gross and mean. I shouldn’t even have to type this.
Keep your fetishes to yourself. This is how people solidify their identities
creepy uncle” or “my aunt with the thing for wrinkled old men.”
Brag rarely and only when appropriate. If someone is sharing the loss
of a pet,
spouse, job, home, or will to live—please, refrain from hijacking their grief with a
plug for your new band.
Despite all advertising to the contrary, Facebook is not all about YOU.
And really: log off sometimes.
You might actually have something worthwhile to share when you return.
- Jessica Hagy
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