Oh. I'm a contrarian, much to my dismay, and I will not do something if someone says I should do it. It's an awful trait to have and I'm certain I have missed out on some marvelous things in life because of it. My husband understands me and knows to tell me how much he likes something - which peaks my interest - instead of telling me I should do something. I know it's a control issue and so does he and I am much more inclined to do something when a person tells me why they like something instead of insisting I do such and such. I just thought perhaps you were like that and had held off reading that book because of it.
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