Yeah, that's not neat - they call this process marrow donation because the giver is choosing to perform a charitable act. No one is entitled to "have" part of your body just because it matches them. Donation is voluntary, not compulsory. I feel bad for this woman's family that someone would admonish her publicly, and that Neatorama would continue the judgmental headline about her. Tell us about the people who do save a life, that would be neat.