BlueSue could not have said it any better! I too am a server & have been for many years while I've been going to school. My son is half black & I date a multitude of races. Last week there was a stabbing at my table at my restaurant-guess what race they were...while there are of course exceptions to every rule, EVERY WORD BlueSue said it TRUE!!!! I have always said that if I had been a sociology major I would totally want to write a research paper proving that these so called, "stereotypes" are actually based in fact--therefore, not racist!