So Im reading this and really kind of sad for alot of the people writing such nasty things on both ends of the spectrum, fatties and thinies. Honestly, being a fat person is not a chioce most people sign up for. No peoson on the planet wants to walk into a store and have to pick up the largest size on the rack, then go into the dressing room and look at themselves in the 3 way miror and see buldges and rolls and walk out of the store with a new sence of how deeply un-attractive you are. No one wants to be the girl at the bar who sits in the dark corner table nursing her 64 calorie beer while her other friends, thinner friends dance and flirt with men who would never look at her. I think if the thin people ever lived a week in a heavy persons shoes they would stop the blame and hate.

Now in saying this, I am a single mom who realy has always been in the size 16-18 range. I am not thin but not so overweight that I need a scooter. I wake up in the morning before the sun is usualy up, so I can get myself ready and get things ready for my and my sons day. We head off to the daycare and my work I work a fulltime job as an Optician and usualy have 8-9hour days. My son and I get home around 6 or 7 pm and my evening is usualy focused on my son. I put him to bed, then start my classes, as I am in college via mostly online however one night a week I go to the college. I usualy get to bed around midnight.

Nowhere in my life is there room for being lazy. If anything I work more than most thin people I know. I try for a balanced diet but just like everyone else I am a sucker for fast food once in a while. I think everyone should look at the whole picture rather than easy blame and finger pointing.