he is an older gentleman but i wouldnt not call him ugly and i wouldnt call him a jerk or desperate either. he is an older man that wants a woman to spend the rest of his life with and whats so desperate about that... every normal person does want that. maybe he just doesnt know when the right time to ask a woman to marry him is? i think he should take his mind off of women for a while because when you look for something you will never find it but if you take some time for yourself and go and have fun it will find you. i would know im 21 have two kids with the same father and still with him.. our 4th anniversary is in a couple months and i couldnt be happier.