Personally this just reminded me of http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5-nh7xOjkSs&hd=1 and it makes me mad that while the media would have called him out if he had said "it was all these black lads" they won't even though he basically accused all young people of being thieves. Abusive comment hidden. (Show it anyway.)
1) Stalking and emotional abuse should not be shown to be a good thing. Especially since these are supposed to be written for the young adult crowd.
2) She has no purpose. Her goal in life is to be a boys shadow.
Looks like http://navigatorsusa.ning.com/ may be what you are looking for. Looks like it was started by an ex-scout leader.
Unfortunately I do not. I will look around and if I find one will post it here.