If the adoption process wasn't so horribly expensive and difficult, then these children would be adopted when they are infants and thus not have seven years of abuse which has shaped their identities. The fact that societies allow this outrageous expense and difficulty is a huge injustice to the children and the couples who can't have bio children. It is disgusting that adoption is not quick and inexpensive. Any crack whore on the street can pop out bio kids all day long, and yet stable loving couples have to pay $40,000 and go through hell to adopt a baby. Sickening.