mom here of 6........well first things first invest in an intercom. come down off the roof and help your wife so that all the resposibitlity is not only up to her it took two to create those little blessings and not one.so the two of you should become resposibile in raising them.but i do think she should move the children into their own room their is many dangers having them sleep with you.suffication is just one sids is another. so you need to get down off that roof try hiring a sitter and take your wife out for a nice dinner. trust me it helps yours truly mother of 6