That's true. But I was looking for an anime or manga-like character that would be widely known, that I knew of, and for which I had an image I could work with.
Ironically, she explained, men are often pressured to open up and talk about their feelings, and they are criticized for being emotionally walled-off; but if they get too real, they are met with revulsion.
Yup. This flows directly out of hypergamy.