It doesn't matter what turns you on, you just cannot act on certain fetishes. Nobody knows or cares what turns you on if you don't act on it. If your fetish is to spank your girlfriend, you need to make sure she is OK with it; in the case of a child, who can never be "OK with it," you just have to find some other outlet.
If you can't, society will remove you from its midst, as it should.
It doesn't matter what turns you on, you just cannot act on certain fetishes. Nobody knows or cares what turns you on if you don't act on it. If your fetish is to spank your girlfriend, you need to make sure she is OK with it; in the case of a child, who can never be "OK with it," you just have to find some other outlet.
If you can't, society will remove you from its midst, as it should.