i think it is wonderful that they have been together so many years and still find each other atractive like that at least they arent divorced. you go girl i believe that the lord has a purpose for us all and in him you will find joy so if the lord wants to bless then let him there is a verse in psalms that talks about a man that has his quiver full is blessed so what business is it of any ones if they have 50 kids its not you so but out