Wow, what a courageous man. I am so grateful that there are folks out there who still have common decency, and who are willing to get to know him on his own terms instead of being cruel to him for being different. Mr. O'Neal, I hope that you can get your surgery, and I hope that you continue to find the world to be full of kind, loving, supportive people. I also hope you can tell the cruel jerks of the world to simply sod off. What an amazing story. Huuuuuugs!