holoprosencephaly. My son has a very minor case of this. Basically a fusion of the brain with other midline facial abnormalities. When we discovered this in-utero, our doctor almost forcefully recommended delivery at 28 weeks, which would have made it next to impossible for our son to survive with all the other problems he was having. We told him where to go. Our son, who still came 5 weeks premature, is now 2.5 years old, very healthy, happy, loved, and though he looks a little different and has some developmental challenges, he strengthens everyone he meets.

Now, at least once a year, we take him in to this arrogant paranatologist's office, talk to the staff, drop off literature, and remind him that even less-than-ideal odds can result in a win.