I am actually a member of this family, and I pray for all of you who are too short sighted and judgmental to understand the miraculous act of courage, strength, and love it took for Amilcar and Rahwa to wed at their son's memorial service (it was NOT a funeral - there was no casket present, and his body had already been laid to rest). Asa was a BEAUTIFUL child, full of life, energy, and love, and the very last thing he would have ever wanted was a church full of people sadly mourning his death. So instead we chose to celebrate his life. It was a moving and amazing ceremony, everyone should be so lucky to have their life honored that way. I am so blessed to have known Asa, and pray for everyone else who cannot open their hearts to understand the sincerity of love that his memorial represented. WE LOVE YOU ASA!!