First of all Cuerovokate, your experience as an oncology nurse really means nothing. I too have been a nurse for many years. Worked at many hospitals covering oncology. Just because where you work no Dr would say that doesnt mean somewhere else one wouldnt. Everyone should have a little courtesy for those around them. Who cares if you believe it or not, grow up! Worse case senerio if it wasnt true and least it touches the heart, at least for those who have one. Take your negativity and keep it in your own private lives there is to much of that going around as it is.