My husband died of cancer on December 26, 2007. A couple of months later my son and I found a song he had begun writing in the back of the notebook where we had all the bills listed. Quite honestly, I had looked at this notebook numerous times and never found the note. Same goes for a nother note he left me. I have to agree with the guy who said you just don't do a whole lot of searching and cleaning when you are losing someone you love. And to the guy who said shame on you for using a dead girl to sell books - my understanding is the proceeds are going to a good cause. Not much different from the christmas cards designed by kids. I think it's great that they kept the notes - whether they found them before or after losing their precious daughter. Shame on you people for being so callous and not seeing the sweetness in this