Why do people stick to one or the other? All of my youtube friends stay inside that site and never venture over to my blog. I get some hits from Facebook, but it seems to be "lazy" traffic. I read that twitter can be used to drive traffic but i think that only works if you have 3,000,000 followers and you are on t.v.

If the internet were a restaurant, there would be no mom-and-pops. Just 3 or 4 monolithic companies serving the same thing with just a couple slight variations, like flavor of cheese. I guess we all have to eat somewhere and no one likes to eat alone..