The original post has disappeared from the subreddit /r/relationships. This is most likely because the woman felt overwhelmed with shame at not immediately supporting her husband's spectacular plans for his remains after his death.

Novelist Herb Mallette proposes that a better option would be to have the skull placed next to the wife's nightstand so that he could watch over her as she sleeps. This would be far more romantic than resting on the mantle. I'll bet that if the husband had pitched this modification of his plan to his wife, she'd swoon with bliss and agree.

If she simply refuses to cooperate, then I think that the husband should have his cremated remains compacted into a jewel that will be embedded in the pommel of a cursed sword that will be used by his children to slay his still-living enemies.

I'm sentimental that way.

Imagine yourself as a child turning nine years old. Your birthday party would probably consist of your best friends from school and maybe their siblings. You'd eat cake and play games like musical chairs and then open gifts. It wouldn't be anything at all like a party held 38 years ago today in Manhattan with a star-studded guest list.   

It was October 9, 1984, and Steve Jobs was going to a nine-year-old’s birthday party. He’d been invited just a few hours earlier by journalist David Scheff, who was wrapping up a profile of the Apple Computer wunderkind for Playboy. Jobs was far from the highest-profile guest, however. Walter Cronkite, Andy Warhol, Keith Haring, Louise Nevelson, John Cage, and singer-songwriter Harry Nilsson were also in attendance. And Yoko Ono, of course—it was her son’s birthday, after all.

Jobs brought a gift for young Sean Lennon: a Macintosh computer. Few people had one in 1984, and anyone who was introduced to Macintosh in the 1980s can tell you how game-changing they were. Andy Warhol was particularly impressed. A last-minute child's birthday gift turned out to be a great way to promote a product to pop culture influencers. See pictures from that birthday party at Vintage Everyday. -via Nag on the Lake

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The most frustrating part of using a glue gun on a regular basis is how often it's necessary to reload. It's the flintlock musket of the crafting world.

Now it's time to change the crafting battlefield forever. Let's massively increase the rate of fire on a glue gun by converting it into a cycling 6-shot revolver. Vije Miller made a revolutionary improvement upon the classic glue gun by adding a servo that turns the 3D printed cylinder, chambering new sticks. The system is controlled by an Arduino Nano and 5 volt power supply built into the grip.

If you call Miller out into the street, you'd better hope that your first (and only) shot hits.

-via Hack A Day

Star Wars has become less humorous over time. Sure, there are still plenty of side characters thrown in to make jokes and sell toys, like droids and porgs, but our heroes have become too perfect to crack wise the way Han Solo did in the original trilogy. Let's go back to the days when main characters could be flawed while also brave and dedicated to the cause. For example, you aren't always going to have someone who knows every language in the galaxy to act as a spy. Your second choice would be someone who can take risks and think on their feet. That may or may not work out as well as you'd wish, but sometimes you don't have a choice. Then you have to rely on luck (also known as plot armor). In this well-made skit, our hero injects comedy into the Star Wars universe by simply being more realistic. This video contains a little NSFW language. -via reddit

Once upon a time, we made things for children that mimicked adult items, like toy dishes and tools, so they could learn to be adults. Now the world is making things that are clearly for adults that enable us to pretend we are children, like Happy Meals, house paint, revamped cartoons, elaborate LEGO sets, and now vodka.

The British distiller Au Vodka, which already produces vodka in various candy and fruit flavors, has launched Au Vodka Bubblegum, which not only tastes like bubblegum, it changes color from blue to purple when you add a mixer. Dilute it enough and it becomes pink! Au Vodka is not the first to sell a color-changing liquor- Empress 1908 Gin, which went viral in the summer, does the same for gin lovers.

Both liquors contain extracts of the butterfly pea flower, a plant that is already pretty adult. The flower acts as a litmus test by changing color according to the acidity of its surroundings. Its original blue color will turn purple or pink when a citrus mixer such as lemonade or grapefruit juice is added. Mixing these cocktails in front of an audience is a pretty neat bar trick. However, no floor show will get me to drink bubblegum flavored vodka.

While Au Vodka is promoting their bubblegum liquor on Twitter, it is nowhere to be found on their website. They must have sold out their entire inventory. Maybe they'll make more.

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Dragons are large mythical reptiles that are found all over the world. Well, the myths are found all over the world, anyway. Strangely, medieval naturalists were writing about and describing dragons for hundreds of years before they realized these animals did not exist. So where did the idea of dragons come from? Possibly from Homer's Iliad.

Six passages mention the drakon, a creature that, from the context, is clearly a snake. Homer didn’t seem to be referring to any specific type of snake and neither did Aristotle, whose fourth-century BCE History of Animals noted that the eagle eats drakons.

That explains the name, but how did Homer's snakes become winged monsters that breathed fire? That took some time, and came about because of assumptions, miscommunications, and the inability of writers to distinguish fact from fiction. Read some of the steps in the long process of turning snakes into dragons at Jstor Daily.  -via Strange Company

The bar has been raised again. Tom BetGeorge always puts on terrific holiday light shows- we've been featuring his work for a decade now. His hobby of choreographing his Halloween and Christmas light displays led him to start his own business, and he's always looking out for new technology to impress the neighbors. For Halloween 2022, that includes an army of computer-controlled drones! They fly as far as 400 feet above the house (meaning they now need multiple cameras to record it all, including a drone camera). Also, BetGeorge and his family have moved from Tracy to a new house in Linden, California, with more room for the light shows. This year's sequence features a Stranger Things theme and music from Metallica, plus Ghostbusters. The combination of sequenced lights, video projection, and drones is truly over-the-top.

After the show, we get to see how big their new place is as they set the drones. And that solar array means they shouldn't worry about powering the lights. -via reddit

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If you've read Washington Irving's story The Legend of Sleepy Hollow, or if you've seen any of the five movie adaptations or numerous television versions, you are familiar with the terrifying Headless Horseman. And isn't Sleepy Hollow just the perfect name for a horror story setting? I case you didn't know, Sleepy Hollow is a real place in New York state. The village of Sleepy Hollow has embraced the fame that Irving's story brought.

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October is the best time to visit Sleepy Hollow, as the leaves are at their peak, and also because that's when Sleepy Hollow puts on its best haunted village act. You'll want to be there for the annual Great Jack O’Lantern Blaze, open through November 20, featuring more than 7,000 illuminated Jack O’Lanterns. Or hear a reading of The Legend of Sleepy Hollow at the Tarrytown house that Irving lived in.  

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That's just the beginning of the wonders of Sleepy Hollow. You can visit any time of the year and see the places that inspired Irving's story, sites that figured in American history, the lovingly preserved downtown, and the many memorials to Irving and his iconic Headless Horseman. See what Sleepy Hollow has to offer visitors at Halloween and year-round at Messy Nessy Chic.

Edgar Allan Poe is known as a horror author, but he wrote about quite a range of subjects. His works included gothic romance, science fiction, and poetry, and he is credited with inventing the detective fiction genre. But all his stories were imbued with melancholy and existential dread of one kind or another. That may be because that's what he knew. His life story was filled with sadness, despite achieving literary fame. The life story of Edgar Allan Poe reads like a character he might have created: dark, bleak, and mysterious. This short animated version illustrates that pretty well. -via Nag on the Lake

Near the spot where Missouri, Kansas, and Oklahoma meet, just off Route 66, lies a four-mile road they call the Devil's Promenade. This is where a glowing light has been reported to appear in the night since 1881. There used to be a town there called Hornet, and the light is called the Hornet Spook Light. Documented sightings have described the light as small as an egg or as large as a washtub. It comes in various colors, and sometimes moves or changes shape. Sightings are relatively few and far between, but plenty of living people have seen it.

What could cause such a mysterious light? Some think it comes from the headlights of cars on the highway, but others say Route 66 is too far away. And headlights weren't a thing around there in 1881. Others blame swamp gas or a wandering spirit. The Army Corps of Engineers calls it a "mysterious light of unknown origin". Read about the Hornet Spook Light at BBC Travel. -via Damn Interesting

A challenge you can't resist! Or at least I couldn't. Turn your head away as each song starts and see if you can name that tune before you look at the title onscreen. Describing the Bugs Bunny scene doesn't count.  

I thought I would do better than I did. I knew some, and couldn't bring up the name of others. When composers just give their compositions numbers instead of unique names, it's hard to commit them to memory. But there were a few I don't think I've ever even heard before. I could identify the Nokia ringtone, but I didn't know it was based on an existing song. If you enjoyed that, here's round two.



I could name more of them in the second round. How did you do?

Sometimes, it's not enough to travel to new places to relax. What you really need is actual, sustained, uninterrupted sleep for several hours. That can be hard to get, what with your brain deciding to 2 AM is the ideal time to process that time you of embarrassing, aggravating, or guilt-inducing memories. And when you're not listening to the noise inside your head, there's the noise coming from the outside world.

That's why some luxury hotels are developing rooms designed with sleep in mind. Pictured above is a suite at the Park Hyatt hotel in New York City. It has an AI-controlled bed that adjusts pressure points and temperature while you sleep, essential oils, sleep masks, and sleep-inspiring books.

CNN reports about other hotels that are getting into this market, with high-end sleep-optimal hotels opening in London and Coimbra, Portugal. Sleep, one researcher says, is often the first casualty of travel. Good travel planning should include making plans for how to sleep effectively. Hotels that design their experiences with sleep in mind can offer tourists an essential service.

-via Marginal Revolution

I love when neighbors place Free Little Libraries outside their homes, but this house in Los Feliz takes the cake. Ten years ago, the owner installed a bocce ball court in the median between the sidewalk and street, open to anyone who wants to play. pic.twitter.com/Z9NxgbZlN6

— L.A. Dork (@la_dorkout) September 25, 2022

The Little Free Library movement places book swapping libraries in public places. Take a book if you like and leave a book when you can. I find them helpful because the practice of actually throwing away books is so repulsive to me that Little Free Libraries give me a way to dispose of some books that are worth reading but for which I have no space

The movement has inspired other public sharing places, such as little free art galleries and, now, a little free bocce court. Los Angeles author Paul Haddad says that in the Los Feliz neighbhood of his city, there's a bocce court that one kind landowner makes available to passersby who would like to play a game.

-via Super Punch

A Finnish cruise line bought a ship in 1980 and named it the Viking Sally. Its first six years as a cruise ship were uneventful, but in 1986, a man met two strangers in a bar, and was brutally murdered in his cabin later that night. Police found the perpetrator, who later escaped from prison and murdered again. In 1987, two passengers were sleeping on the deck when they were attacked. They were taken to a hospital where one of them died of his injuries. It was 30 years before the perpetrator was discovered, but he was never convicted.

Was the Viking Sally cursed? The ship was sold and renamed, but it was the same boat that ran into a massive storm in 1994 and sank, killing 852 people. It was the second worst European maritime disaster outside of war, only surpassed by the Titanic. Only 137 people survived. Read the story of the Viking Sally at Atlas Obscura.

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The fast-moving, action-packed animated short A Brief Disagreement by Steve Cutts (previously at Neatorama) is basically about two cavemen fighting -"mankind's favourite pastime" as the YouTube description puts it. They begin with rocks and progress to clubs, and get their friends to join in. Their weapons get ever more sophisticated, but their feelings toward each other are stuck in a stubborn battle where the goal is winning at any cost. I suppose that's why they remain cavemen, even armed with today's high-tech killing machines. -via Laughing Squid