Unemployed Man Giving Away $10 Every Day

Reed Sandridge lost his job last year and took up a new hobby. He gives away $10 every day to someone who looks as if they could use it, a different person every day. And Sandridge expects nothing in return but a good feeling.
His mom, the daughter of a coal miner whom he remembers most for her kindness, always told him that when you're going through tough times, that's when you most need to give back.

So not long after he was laid off, on the third anniversary of his mom's death, he started his "year of giving," documenting each $10 gift in a small black notebook and then blogging about the people he meets. By Day 94, he had given away almost $1,000, handing out money in blizzards, in rainstorms, on the sunniest of days.

Sandridge is using his savings and his unemployment benefits for the giveaways. Some of the folks he gives money to use it to help others. He tells stories of the people he meets in his blog, which has led others to help them out as well. Link to story. Link to blog. -via Digg

(image credit: Katherine Frey/the Washington Post)

The story is good, too bad he is doing it for himself rather than others. There should be no expectations when giving, not even the expectation of the good feeling that comes from it.
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I think what he is doing is amazing.

@Max... if you read his blog, he is not a millionaire, nor was his mother. He was working at a nonprofit up until he got laid off due to the economic crisis.

@Kelly... I don't get your comment. I don't feel as if he has any expectations when he is giving...that is what makes it so great. Just because he happens to feel good as a result doesn't mean that he had an expectation...and even if he had an expectation to feel good, that is hardly something I would fault him over.

It's too bad there are so many cynics in this world. We need more like this guy!
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It's amazing how we can go through life thinking we need something or are going without. You read a story like this and you realize that we need very little and there is always someone else that needs more than we do.
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Aesop probably wrote a fable on this idea... what might happen is that someone he is giving money to now will have some unexpected good fortune in the future and feel inclined to share it with Reed in return for his generosity.
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@SenorMysterioso: I have been unemployed for [way] over a year. I was living off my savings, which are of course getting pretty low now. I live back at my folks so I don't have to pay rent/utility.
2 months ago the government created around 40 jobs in our town. I was rejected because I was long-term unemployed... but had not been registered on the dole for the minimum term required to apply.

Losing out on money AND work? I signed on the next day.

To counter that lightly profound comment, yes, it is a bit douchy he's giving away other people's money. At least he's not spending it on drugs. Unless the people he gives it to do...
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Just to clarify, unemployment benefits are paid out of unemployment insurance, the premium of which employers pay. So let's say you work for 5 years at a company which lays you off. You apply for unemployment benefits. Those benefits are paid out of the pool of funds that your former employer, and others in the state, have paid into. It's not "other people's money," it is your insurance benefit that you helped pay for by producing 5 years' worth of good work for your employer.

It's not charity, it's not even welfare. It's just insurance. If you have a car wreck and get a check from your car insurance to repair your car, people don't accuse you of spending "other people's money," do they?

One more point: Giving changes a person profoundly. It is great for the psyche to give. An unemployed person can feel pretty useless, but giving can give that person a sense of being worth placing on the planet. If for nothing else, it's worth that alone to give even when one is in need.
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I don't get why you guys are all so critical. Yes he's on unemployment, but he's on there because he doesn't have a job! He's getting the money so he can live, so what if he chooses to give away $10 a day from that money, it's his now that he could have spent on food for himself or something equally essential. But he's doing something good for the world, which is something 99.999% of all the other people on unemployment wouldn't even think about doing.
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That is MY tax money he's giving away, and I'm fine with that. Better him than giving my tax money to a 4th generation welfare loser that has never worked a day in his life.
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Great story, I'm glad his efforts are getting some press. If you've never paid for the food of the next car in the drive-thru or the person in line behind you at Starbucks, you should give it a whirl. The feeling is awesome and you might just make someone's day for a few bucks.

@Gail Pink, my sentiments exactly. We all should take this example and apply it.

@Kelly, that is a pretty lame and cynical comment. It is very sad that something so positive stirs such negativity with you. I hope that someday you will have the ability to trust in the rarely seen but innate goodness of man.

@Dgrits, FYI, that is not your or any other persons "tax money". Our income taxes don't go toward unemployment. Our personal unemployment tax payments go towards unemployment. Hence, if you have not worked an adequate amount of hours in the previous years you are ineligible for benefits, clearly not freeloading. He is basically reaping the benefits sewn through his own previous labor. Has nothing to do with anyone else's contributions or benefits.
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Bravo! What a great story.

SenorMysterioso He is giving away HIS OWN money. As a payroll employee, he paid into the EDD system, unemployment insurance. Now unemployed, he is collecting the money that he paid in. If he had not earned enough or contributed enough, he would not be eligible to collect unemployment.
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What an idiot. Why is this news? If you give away something, why feel the need to boast about it...

Also, it is better that he withholds -for the moment- from giving small amounts of cash to strangers who will just buy coke or some other junk food that makes their health worse,...AND use that money to start an online business...so that 3 - 6 months later...he will have MORE TO GIVE...AND CAN HELP THEM MORE...

Again, this is just me...I started UNEMPLOYED...did the above and created a successful business...NOW I HAVE MORE power to help others.

MOST PEOPLE DON'T GET THIS.
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When I'm on vacation I always save some money for the poor. This to show them my appreciation for letting me come and visit. And the smile you get back is literally invaluable!
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Neatorama has linked this story to altruism, sorry it doesn't fit here. He stated his motives were to help people, what we are all here for, but also because it makes him feel good. He feels good for giving tax dollars away to those he feels deserve it, where there are many more denied by the government because they are not deemed deserving.

Do the right thing because it is the right thing to do, not because you feel good about it. I don't think that is cynical, what makes you think I am?

This is the cynical part, must be nice to collect unemployment insurance and then give it away. He collects because he feels it is owed to him. Who is cynical?
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Hmmmm story about a man give $10 of tax benefits away everyday, AND blogging about it.

Another story about a man who gave his KIDNEY away.

Which deserves the attention on Neatorama?
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Unemployed and giving away $10 a day this guy is crazy. But at least he's still trying to help out others there's not many people out there these willing to look back and help you out. Good o him
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@Kelly- Why is giving only right when you expect nothing (not even a good feeling) in return? It seems to me that it is better that people feel good about giving, otherwise it would almost never happen. Also, if people only ever made each others' lives better at a detriment (if they never gained anything from giving they would actually be making themselves worse off) to their own, it would be a zero-sum game, and there would be a fixed level of misfortune in the world.

The great thing about people giving to each other and helping each other is that it enriches two lives at the same time, unlike many of our actions which further someone's interests at the expense of others'.
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Why do people feel the need to judge and analyze? I enjoyed this story and am proud that there are people in the world that want to help others less fortunate. There is hope for this country.
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I agree w/VCS... Giving in modest is humble. Giving and blogging for the whole world to read about it seems as though he's ooking for some sort of payback. I don't admire this at all.
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Jesus says to give, expecting nothing in return. Nothing. No "warm fuzzies", no pats on the back, no recognition on public forums, no payback from anywhere, from anyone.

While I think it's admirable that he's trying to help others with what is rightfully his to collect (it IS insurance, not welfare!) I understand some of the cynicism expressed here.

It would be better if he kept it to himself (the blogging about it), and if someone ELSE praised him for it, let it be made known that way. By doing that, he would be staying humble, and above reproach.

I personally disagree with the government giving tax deductions for charitable giving. That, too, is expecting something in return.
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