Yeah, it would be nice to have a serious relationship where there is no arguing. From experience, I can tell you it's possible, but it takes a lot of maturity, the kind you get by making a lot of mistakes over a lot of years. Better to take some advice from The School of Life.
So you're going to argue with your partner occasionally. You may as well learn to fight fair so that the scars don't last long. When you feel like attacking, remember who you're arguing with, and maybe attempt to communicate first. After all, it's better to win the war than the battle at hand. -via Digg