5 Celebrities With Depression

Posted by Jill Harness in Everything Else, Neatorama Only on January 26, 2009 at 8:11 pm


Being a depression sufferer myself, I find it interesting and inspiring to see people deal with their chronic depression. I love seeing what people can do with their lives, despite the agonizing pain they have had to cope with. While we probably all know about Heath Ledger and Kurt Cobain, there are plenty of surprising celebrities with depression, like Harrison Ford. A few others you may not have know about include the five stars below.

Jim Carrey

In an interview during 60 Minutes, Mr. Carrey revealed that the inspiration behind his funny-man antics was “desperation.” Like many famous comics, Carrey channeled his emotional pain and scarring into humor. The laughter and attention brought from audiences helps ease the depression comedians feel and soothes their pain.

Carrey’s attention getting antics started when he tried to entertain his sick mother. To get her spirits up, he’d do anything from impressions to rolling down the stairs. When he was young, he grasped on to an optimistic dream of making it big. In 1987, he wrote himself a check for ten million dollars “for acting services rendered.” As it turns out, the check was a massive underestimate of what he ended up making when he cashed the check 1995. As financial worries lessened, so did his depression symptoms. He has since learned to better cope with his sadness and he says the valleys and peaks have gradually smoothed out a bit. While he used to take Prozac to help stabilize his mood, he now focuses on treatment through spirituality and clean living.

Sources: one, two & three Photo by IBWK [Flickr]

Rodney Dangerfield

“If a really good comedian isn’t depressed,” says Bob Saget, “something’s wrong.” Rodney Dangerfield is no exception to this rule. Around the end of his life, he attended regular therapy sessions with his psychiatrist and took around 137 prescription drugs a day, including anti-depressants and Valium.
Rodney’s father abandoned the family when he was a child and he was instead raised by a cold-hearted mother.

He found an outlet in writing jokes, and even remembers the first one. At age 4, Dangerfield finished dinner and whined, “I’m still hungry.”
“You’ve had sufficient,” replied his mom.
“But,” said Rodney, “I didn’t even have any fish.”

He has had wild mood swings throughout his career and tried to escape the pain and suffering in every way imaginable, including prostitutes and drugs. His wife helped pull him through to the end, but he still experienced these problems until the end of his days.

Source Photo by Breakfast For Dinner [Flickr]

J.K. Rowling

J.K. Rowling will be the first to tell you about the hardships of being a single parent. In fact, in her darkest hour, she strongly contemplated suicide while suffering from a massive bout of depression. She missed her ex-husband and worried about finances, that’s when the dark thoughts started coming out. Fortunately, her daughter was there to inspire her to seek treatment:

“Mid-twenties life circumstances were poor and I really plummeted,” said Rowling. “The thing that made me go for help . . . was probably my daughter. She was something that earthed me, grounded me, and I thought, this isn’t right, this can’t be right, she cannot grow up with me in this state.”

Rowling opted too treat her depression with cognitive therapy rather than anti-depressants. This type of therapy seeks to cure the emotional problem, rather than treating it. The therapy involves a series of counseling sessions providing the sufferer with the mental tools to cope with their emotions. Rowling has been very forthright about her disorder in the hope she can help remove the stigma associated with mental illnesses.

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Owen Wilson

Many people already know about Owen Wilson’s depression. After all, his attempted suicide took over all the tabloid headlines at their local grocery stores two years ago. But, you may still be wondering why.
The fact is, like millions of other Americans, Wilson is clinically depressed and will be throughout his lifetime. He has been battling depression by taking anti-depressants for years, however, breaking up with Kate Hudson pushed him beyond the effects of his medication and made him feel hopeless. While it has been debated whether Wilson was taking cocaine or heroin around this time, the fact is that either way, a major life change can dramatically endanger a depression sufferer.

Sources: one & two Photo by Smellmoregloves’ [Flickr]

Brooke Shields

Mrs. Shields is a perfect example of how beauty does not equal happiness. While not a lifelong depression sufferer, she has been very vocal about her experience with postpartum depression, an illness experienced by 13% of pregnant women and new mothers. Her book “Down Came The Rain” describes her experiences in detail.

Like many postpartum depression sufferers, she experienced a detachment from her baby daughter and self-destructive thoughts. At her lowest point, Brooke says she wanted to jump out of a window and throw the baby against a wall. Brooke began taking Paxil to cope with her emotions and eventually recovered. She now has a very close relationship with her daughter.

After being criticized by Tom Cruise for her use of anti-depressants, Brooke published an essay in the “New York Times” detailing the need for global recognition of postpartum depression and the use of anti-depressants for treatment.

Source Photo by WatchWithKristin [Flickr]


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53 comments to "5 Celebrities With Depression"

  1. Josh
    January 26th, 2009 at 8:24 pm

    I suffer from depression as well. I have avoided seeing a doctor about it and it seems to only get worse especially when the people who handle my student loans are asking for over 90% of my income and will not budge and keep threatening me that they will garnish my income, take my tax return, take my social security benefits, and sue me. I keep seeing suicide return to my head on and off in the past 2 months. More than it has in my life. I dont think I will ever get to that point. Hopefully. I was alright and handled my depression pretty well before December of last year but it is getting tougher and tougher to handle it now since every time I get somewhere SallieMae just lies and demands more money.

  2. Jill Harness
    January 26th, 2009 at 8:25 pm

    Josh, I will say the pills can help a lot when you are very stressed and you can always get off of them later.

  3. Alex
    January 26th, 2009 at 8:40 pm

    I'm sorry to hear about your predicament, Josh - but please do see a doctor. I think that you may be able to build a stronger case against loan collectors if you have a medical opinion to help back your case.

    Jill - great article! It's interesting to find out how celebrities are just regular people when it comes to depression.

  4. Erik O.
    January 26th, 2009 at 8:44 pm

    Josh,
    I went through a very similar situation this past semester at college. I never went to class and avoided anything that didn't remotely bring me any happiness.
    However, last November my mom motivated me enough to see a doctor.
    Since then, I've been on Wellbutrin and it has really helped me out. I've noticed that I the good, positive rational thoughts that I thought before (and rejected instantly) now actually calm me down and let me get things done.
    I mean, yes, you might have to try a few medications before they work (because everyone is different), but they really do help.

  5. Woogie
    January 26th, 2009 at 8:48 pm

    I should think Rodney is pretty depressed, what we being dead and all...

  6. netchicken
    January 26th, 2009 at 8:54 pm

    Isn't Rodney Dangerfield dead?
    If so his depression is cured....

  7. netchicken
    January 26th, 2009 at 8:54 pm

    Woogie beat me to it :)

  8. Gauldar
    January 26th, 2009 at 9:34 pm

    Josh wrote: "I have avoided seeing a doctor about it and it seems to only get worse"

    I lived with depression and anxiety throughout public school, and I figured it would have stopped when I ended highschool. It didn't get better, it just got worse until I had gotten help for it. I'm not currantly on medication but I was for a number of years, but I've got a stable job, group therapy and a support system if I need it. It's worth it to get help, because it can always get worse if you go untreated.

  9. hilandhall
    January 26th, 2009 at 9:35 pm

    Jim Carey does it with treatment through spirituality and clean living.Hmmm..... I thought millions of dollars and a screwing a former playboy playmate would be enough.

  10. Reason
    January 26th, 2009 at 9:36 pm

    Kurt Cobain suffered from bipolar disorder.

  11. Kent
    January 26th, 2009 at 10:20 pm

    I am a sufferer also and only when I got help and was able to talk about it, did it ever become managable. The one thing that will always keep me looking on the bright side, other than wife and kids, is that there is so much to see in the world, so much to experience.

  12. GailW
    January 26th, 2009 at 10:23 pm

    I think Harrison Ford suffers from "Depression," not "Depressing."

  13. smak
    January 26th, 2009 at 10:32 pm

    This is an interesting article, but easily the most poorly written thing I've yet seen on Neatorama. I assume there's no "English is my second language" excuse?

  14. Screen Sleuth
    January 26th, 2009 at 10:45 pm

    I didn't actually know about Carrey's depression, though I figured some of that crazed, manic energy had to come from somewhere deep.

  15. Terry
    January 26th, 2009 at 10:48 pm

    He who is not contented with what he has, would not be contented with what he would like to have. -Socrates ...

  16. Kathy
    January 26th, 2009 at 10:48 pm

    Smak, are you just mean? It is not poorly written!

  17. Gauldar
    January 26th, 2009 at 10:57 pm

    smak,

    seems fine to me, care to point out the errors?

  18. Noelegy
    January 26th, 2009 at 11:10 pm

    *raises hand* I too have been dealing with the D word much of my life, and am a much happier person for therapy as much as medication. I'm glad to read an article like this, especially after reading that Bijou Phillips, whoever she is, thinks that all depressives just need to stop being "f***ing pans[ies]."

  19. Alex
    January 27th, 2009 at 2:24 am

    Seems fine to me too ...

    Talking about depression, my wife has a motto: "Don't get depressed, get angry instead!"

  20. Larfin Jackarse
    January 27th, 2009 at 4:13 am

    Only 5?
    Stephen Fry
    Spike Milligan
    Peter Sellers
    Billy Connelly
    Richard Pryor

    ...and the list goes on.

    ps: I think Tom Cruise should be on the list as undiagnosed.

    @Josh and others. Ignore the whole thing about 'drugs are bad', they work, you can get off them, therapy is great too, your problems don't last for ever, in retrospect your problems always seem less. If you have a 'quack' who won't help see another...if they won't, see another. Doctors can be real twats at times.

    No, I don't have depression and can't really understand the mindfarq. However, I know people who do have it, and they are amongst the most considerate and interesting people I know. If I may quote from a depressive friend 'the trick in surviving is not feeling sorry for yourself'.

    http://www.beyondblue.org.au

  21. Larfin Jackarse
    January 27th, 2009 at 4:25 am

    ps: I remember now, the quote was actually ‘the trick in surviving is not being sucked in to feeling sorry for yourself’.

    'Sucked in' is Oz slang for being conned.

  22. Jimmy Jimmy
    January 27th, 2009 at 5:15 am

    'Talking about depression, my wife has a motto: “Don’t get depressed, get angry instead!”'

    I know you're kidding, but this assumes that people with depression have a choice.

    There's a big difference between being "blue" after trauma or stress (a natural and healthy reaction) and being clinically depressed for years on end.

    Too many people are prescribed medication to cure "the blues", I agree. But for some of us, certain mind medications act as insulin does for a diabetic: there is simply something "wrong" in the brain that causes the mind to work in a way that is not conducive to a fulfilling life.

    For the record, I'm on high doses of escitalopram for uncontrollable panic attacks (with either no or completely irrational external stimuli) and a low dose of bupropion for depression that lasted for most of my pre-medicated adult life, again with no or irrational external stimuli.

    Before the medication, life was simply misery, pain and fear. With it, I feel as I imagine a healthy person feels without drugs. I'm sad when there are things to be sad about and afraid when there's something to be frightened of, but I don't constantly sit in the dark in my room alternately hyperventilating and crying for no reason whatsoever with pain in my chest similar to a heart attack.

    I am a strong advocate for people to *not* take medications when they're simply reacting to life situations. I always shudder when someone says something like, "oh, the doctor prescribed Lexapro because I was having trouble dealing with a break-up". Not only is this harmful to the person who doesn't truly need the medication, but it also creates the impression that those of us with serious psychiatric disorders are simply too weak to deal with them like the rest of you do.

    Oh, and also for the record, I'd like to punch Tom Cruise square in the face. :D

  23. gtron
    January 27th, 2009 at 7:55 am

    Josh - you better be checking back because I'm taking the time to write this to YOU.
    1. Me too.
    2. unfortunately money is a strong stressor, maybe the strongest as a result of our societal 'beliefs' - note that even as we bail out the banks they are still buying airplanes - money is an illusion, it's tough to hang onto that concept, but you can re-educate (un-brain-wash) yourself about it - it may be hard to see now, but it will work out
    3. lots of people have student loans and there is no 'debtor's prison" -everyone will be in the same boat once a pandemic hits, or we run out of food. ignore the creditors/collectors until you can get a grip - 90% is ludicrous, commit something you can afford, send the cheques, don't speak to them or take their calls
    4. doctors and the pharmaceutical industries prop each other's money volume up, so you are right to be suspicious, but not ALL doctors are corrupt
    5. there is a herb known commonly as St. John's Wort, that is the first thing prescribed in many Euro countries. it TOTALLY worked for me (but maybe not for everyone) 300mg x 3times/day for 6 weeks will be enough (steady heavy dose, don't go over or under) - read up on it or get advice, as you shouldn't be doing magic mushrooms while undergoing this dosage (and probably other things) - notably, I heard about a study saying that magic mushrooms will keep depression at bay too, but I wouldn't recommend that... booze is a depressant, so drink as little as you can for a while, and marijuana will only distract you, not cure it. easy on the coffee for a while too - calm thyself.
    6. get as much sunshine as you can, and get an injection of vitamin B12 once a month (for a while)
    7. some people may see depression in you, and it throws them off, which will further throw you off - try to remain calm and take as many hugs as you can handle, even when not in the mood - human contact is a great healer - if you have no friends, join the wrestling team or take a waltz course
    8. in all but extreme cases, it will go away.
    9.I am not a doctor

  24. just a guy
    January 27th, 2009 at 7:58 am

    "As financial worries lessened, so did his depression symptoms."

    lol, yeah.

  25. Gauldar
    January 27th, 2009 at 9:56 am

    Alex wrote: Talking about depression, my wife has a motto: “Don’t get depressed, get angry instead!”

    I hope you don't have kids, my mother had that same belief. My sister and I were afraid of her for a good 15 years or so. She would turn depressed feelings of the death of her husband (my biological father) into accusations like "It's all your fault". Sure, it works great for the person getting angry, but there is a price to pay with that mindset.

  26. Byrd Brain
    January 27th, 2009 at 11:35 am

    “Don’t get depressed, get angry instead!”

    Wonderful. Replace one negative emotion with another, more violent one! Good advice!

  27. smak
    January 27th, 2009 at 12:21 pm

    Like I said, great topic; I really can't be bothered to go through the post again, but the Owen Wilson paragraph is a good example of what I'm talking about. It's not horrible -- it just appears to be lazily written.

  28. Jill Harness
    January 27th, 2009 at 12:37 pm

    Larfin, I wasn't sure how well this post would go over, so there may be some follow ups -particularly historical figures.

  29. Dale
    January 27th, 2009 at 12:38 pm

    I think anyone would be depressed after losing Kate Hudson.

  30. Dandy
    January 27th, 2009 at 12:51 pm

    Deperessed? All you need is a good drug to make you not give a d*#m anymore.

    Of course that won't fix that real problem, but you wan't care anymore, and that's cool!

    Come on folks! If you're "depressed" grow some balls and LOOK AT your problem, only then you can fix it.

  31. dd
    January 27th, 2009 at 12:51 pm

    --here's an interview with Margot Kidder
    - From Superman to Superwoman which chronicles her 20yr journey from pharma drugs to orthomolecular medicine in treating her manic depression
    http://www.vistamagonline.com/articles/page.php?s=interview_with_margo t_kidder&page=1
    AND watch
    ‘Masks of Madness: Science of Healing’
    http://www.orthomed.org/store/masks/movie.html
    Dr. Abram Hoffer, and actress Margot Kidder are featured in this two-part video series. This is a great introduction to Orthomolecular Psychiatry, and the key role of nutrients in the medical model for disorders such as “bipolar” and “schizophrenia”.

  32. xultar
    January 27th, 2009 at 1:00 pm

    I suffer depression. I had a breakdown last July. I've been on anti-D meds for over 7 years. HC insurers need to be spanked for what they do and don't do when it comes to depression and mental care.

  33. Jill Harness
    January 27th, 2009 at 1:08 pm

    Hey Dandy,
    Some people do just need to evaluate their lives and deal with their problems. But other people have serious chemical imbalances that leave them feeling miserable, even when things are going great. Maybe you should learn something about psychiatrics before you go around talking crap.

  34. Noelegy
    January 27th, 2009 at 2:34 pm

    I didn't talk about my depression for years for many reasons, but one of the major ones was my parents' attitude: my mom was a counselor and (in my perception) behaved as though I was a bother (bringing her work home with her?) and my dad went around saying that as long as you had a roof over your head and enough to eat, you didn't have anything to be sad about, so suck it up and put a smile on your face.

    I have since made my peace with my parents and we all understand the situation a LOT better than we did back then. But to hear someone like Dandy imply that depressed people are really just in...I don't know, denial? a lack of willingness to examine one's own life? I'm not really willing to put the details of my life or what caused my depression up here on the Internets for just anyone to read, suffice it to say that Dandy, you do not know of what you speak. And attitudes like that just make it that much harder for depressives to get the help they need, whether it's to see a mental health professional or even just ask a friend for help.

    My psychiatrist is a cognitive therapist. He told me up front he had no interest in keeping me in therapy for years and years. He did prescribe an antidepressant, in order to get my depression "out of the way," as he put it, much like taking an aspirin for a headache, so that we could work on what was the root cause.

    I'm in a much, much better place than I was six years ago, or for much of my life leading up to that for that matter, but I had to hit rock bottom before I got desperate enough to get help, and a lot of that was because of mental conditioning to just "suck it up and deal."

  35. Noelegy
    January 27th, 2009 at 2:35 pm

    P.S. I'm really not at all surprised that there are talented entertainers who are depressed. One wonders if in today's society we would try to medicate a Van Gogh out of a job.

  36. SenorMysterioso
    January 27th, 2009 at 3:20 pm

    every time I scroll past this post it looks like brook is holding a gun

  37. Byrd Brain
    January 27th, 2009 at 7:10 pm

    "I should have known each dress you own is a loaded gun..."

  38. ~April
    January 27th, 2009 at 8:11 pm

    Mrs. Shields?

    Josh, change your phone number and take some time to get yourself well, then you'll be able to handle your student loan problem with a clearer head.

    YOU have to care for YOU because SallieMae apparently doesn't care.

  39. akhan246
    January 27th, 2009 at 9:08 pm

    Woo! Go Neatorama, good article! I hated Tom Cruise's response to Brooke Shields, how ignorant can you be? I think depression is a lot more prevalent than we think.

  40. whatisadisease?
    January 29th, 2009 at 6:30 pm

    I have no intent to wrong anyone in here. But the fact that Depression, Bi-Polar and allllll those other 'disorders' are names that are created by a select group of people in order for a drug company to create another drug - this has to be looked at... . Yes people have stress - and yes life is a big f-in challenge some times... but classifying someone as bi-polar or any of those other things basically 'makes them wrong' or puts them into some sort of group that 'needs drugs' or 'should be put on drugs'... Sometimes when life's stressors, or mishaps, or challenges look us in the face we have a hard time confronting it all... this pulls us down below being happy or even content and first, we probably get a bit angry.. but when it continues and persists after not being confronted and handled we can sometimes slip down below being angry and become sad... or even apathetic... past that... when confront for the world and its challenges drops super low we may think of hurting ourselves or even simply consider knocking ourselves off. Now please understand that im not leaving this comment to plug any particular organization, but merely encourage people to think for themselves and ACTUALLY LOOK at the things that are taken for granted and promoted as normal or standard solutions. A friend of mine recently told me about an organization called CCHR (yes, ive since learned that its associated with the always controversial church of scientology)... but through the video clips on their site, (if you can drop your preconceived notion of what you think its about), they raise some undeniably interesting questions about the motivations of the APA (organization that oversees psychiatrists)... Isnt it also a bit strange that there are ridiculous 'diagnoses' in their reference book (the DSM) for nearly everything.. have you ever looked at one of those things!? I swear, nearly everyone on the whole damn planet could fall into one of the categories in the book.... anyway, i will stop there... its just frustrating to see that people who genuinely want to live a good life are convinced that the best solution to lifes problems has to do with taking drugs from companies making billions of dollars on creating a dependence...

  41. Lemon
    January 30th, 2009 at 1:39 pm

    @40 I don't think you have a clue about what you are talking about. Yeah some people misuse drugs but depression is for real and drugs can help in some cases.

  42. gardenpixy
    February 1st, 2009 at 11:46 am

    @40: There've been hundreds of documented cases of bipolar and depression long before Big Pharma even existed.

  43. olafandoscar
    February 5th, 2009 at 6:07 pm

    Alex wrote: "Talking about depression, my wife has a motto: “Don’t get depressed, get angry instead!”"

    Those of you who have been dissing that statement are taking it the wrong way. This is actually good advice for those coping with depression but admittedly, it needs some clarification. Here's the scoop: feelings of anger, if not released, turn into feelings of sadness. A contributing problem for many depressed people is that they have not yet learned healthy ways to feel, and thus release, their anger before it turns to sadness.

    This is particularly a problem for females who have fewer socially acceptable ways to vent their anger. And females, more than males in our society, are generally taught to "be nice" - to be cooperative not confrontive, keep disagreements to a minimum, etc.

    The problem is, after years of deep-6'ing your anger and burying it inside yourself, it burrows a knot in your stomach and leads to, you guessed it, depression. So the trick is to find healthy ways to get your anger out. When you feel angry, pay attention to it. Don't deny or ignore the emotion. Feel it. Have healthy ways prepared for how you will deal with the anger. Hit a pillow as hard as you can, buy a punching bag and hit the crap out of it when you need to, journal your thoughts, write furiously until the rage passes, scream at the top of your lungs (only if you're somewhere no one can hear you - go for a drive and do it), etc.

    Hope this helps. Great article, by the way.

  44. Screaming Phantom
    February 5th, 2009 at 8:47 pm

    I liked your post but the one thing that stood out was "will be throughout his lifetime".

    I don't subscribe to that school of thought.

    I'm 40 and have suffered depressive episodes throughout my life, that's true. However, I don't believe just because I've had a handful of 6-12 month deep depressions that I'm doomed to have them for the rest of my life nor is anyone else.

    I still have to believe that there will be one day when I will conquer depression for good. It will be the day that I finally change the way I think. I'm working on it. It will come. Brain chemicals play only a small part. If someone dropped a million bucks in my lap right now, you wouldn't believe how fast my mood would change. Then, the daily financial pressure of being poor in the United States would be gone and I'd be able to see the sunrise without those dark clouds in the way.

  45. JnLA
    February 5th, 2009 at 9:51 pm

    Those who say 'oh it is not a problem' or 'just get over it' have never lived with depression or any other mental illness of that kind. Yes medication helps but it works even better with threapy. My diagnosis is bipolar, clinical depression, and anxiety disorder. What has worked for me may not work for others but here are some websites that may help some one (I hope).

    http://www.bipolar.com

    http://www.nimh.nih.gov

    http://www.adaa.org

    I hope someone gets some use out of the information I just passed on. One thin I will say is that having a suport group always helps. My group is my husband my grandparents and some close friends. But a suport group can be any number of people.
    Have a good one y'all

  46. wow!
    February 6th, 2009 at 12:03 am

    to "whatisadisease?" and "dandy"

    FUCK you both. i bet you guys/girls are just lonely ignorant people who no one want to be around. "dandy"--YOU grow some balls and get out of tom cruise's vagina. i guess being normal is very hard to think about how others aren't that fortunate.

    then to "whatisadisease?", the DSM books aren't stupid or anything like you said. they're like all the other medical books that help doctors find the diagnoses for their patients.

    i'm bipolar and i have ADHD, i'm only 17..the mania screwed up my 9th grade year and i'm stlil paying for all the screwed up things i did. broke my hand in a fight that cost me sports and not being able to play the drums or guitar very well..loss of credits for absences from being too depressed to get out of bed in 10th..some friends from thinking i was too weird when i was going through the mania. i wasn't feeling sorry for myself those two years. i didn't know what i was feeling was wrong. i didn't even realize i wasn't in a dream. so to the rest of you who KNOW EXACTLY what i'm talking about, good luck to you all. my friends, girlfriend, and family always tell me how proud they are of me for getting my life back together and living stronger. i think that's what really gets us all through the days. and for those who don't, my heart goes out to you..those with depression like Josh, NEED a doctor. some medications don't work for some. i was fortunate that 150mg of lamictal worked for me for the last 4 years. so it's different for every person...so get some help please. the light is at the end of the tunnel..it just takes some time to see that light.

    for those who wanna act like they're better than people like me, screw you. don't EVER tell someone who acknowledges they live with an incurable disorder to "get over it", "be happy","stop worrying so much", "grow some balls",etc. WE as a nation of survivors against our minds are stronger than you're "healthy minded" self. some might not show it, but hey, they're alive aren't they? that's the strength that we subconsciously have. the strength most ignorant people will NEVER have.

  47. abhan_navyveteran
    February 6th, 2009 at 5:09 am

    Thanks wow,

    You really hit it on the nose I too suffer from major depression, and it isn't easy for everyone to understand that either. Plus I think people before they open their mouths needs to do their homework on Depression they would be surprised that there are many types of depression. It's good wow that you are getting your life back from the mania I hope that you keep up the good work. Everyone deals with depression in their own way I actually had a co-worker come out her mouth with "We all get depressed so deal with it". Which pissed me off royally but she sure shut her mouth after the next day I brought her information about depression. She then apologized to me not realizing that depression is an incurable diease. Sure we take medication and go to shrinks or other ways to try to control our depression, but all in all we still have it for the rest of our lives we can either let it get to us or we can live our lives to the fullest.

  48. N
    February 6th, 2009 at 7:54 am

    Kirsten Dunst checked herself into rehab for depression last year...it's good to see someone making an effort to get help, if the stigma of being depressed reduces by even a little bit.

  49. Nethermom
    February 12th, 2009 at 4:05 pm

    Sorry for the length:

    How I wish I would have seen this weeks ago. Hope you are all doing well. I suffered depression/panic attacks for 3 years. My first time, I went through 2 weeks of little or no sleep, my body was constantly shaking 24/7, I couldn't eat, heart pounded faster than normal, my mind was either racing or numb. I cried and prayed for it to stop. My doctor put me on Paxil and I suffered one of the side effects. I wanted to kill myself. I could not see relief, couldn't remember normal. I wanted it to stop so badly, that was all I could think of. I stood in my kitchen and stared at the knife drawer, my own mind convincing me it would be alright, just push it through your heart and it will all stop and you won't feel the pain any more. I was home with my then 13 yr old son. And my love for him is the only thing that stopped me. I couldn't let him remember me that way. I called my husband and he came home right away. I stopped taking the meds, bad idea. It's best to let the docs ween you off. I found relief in the Midwest Center for Stress and Anxiety (they also help with depression). Yes this cost money ($500) I paid in installments. It helped me understand myself and opened up a world to me I did not know existed. People, everywhere, that were feeling the same things I felt. I can't express how much I believe in their program. I carry my cards with me all the time. I haven't had to use them but I keep them to share. Please give it a chance, you can go online and check out their site. For me the worst part was accepting I was the only one that could help me, I had to believe in myself, learn to like and then love who I am and what I have become despite my upbringing and childhood and constant fallbacks. I am happy, not rich, not famous, my marriage is not the best and my kids are a huge pain in my butt, but I love and accept them the way they are and will do all I can for them. I am happy to be alive and healthy and be able to share this experience with others. It took a long time and many small relapses, but knowing and understanding the symptoms helped me cope with them and then one day, they just stopped and it's been a good 2 yrs now. If ever I feel anxious, I drink some Tension Tamer Tea by Celestial Seasonings. It tastes yucky, I use plenty of honey and it does calm me down, also chamomile. I cut down on caffeine but can't get over sweets, I love candy.
    Take care of yourselves and I truly hope this will help you, you deserve to be happy.

  50. armadillo
    February 18th, 2009 at 9:18 am

    Chronic depression is not reasonable or rational. It is not related to life's circumstances. In reading these posts I've noted people are married & single, poor & rich, educated & ignorant, parents & childless; and probably had good, bad or absent parents.

    My point is that there will always be reasons to be depressed (mine are being single, childless, poor at 45 and raised by emotionally absent parents). But it is NOT NORMAL to spend half your time (or more)being depressed. THIS IS A CHEMICAL IMBALANCE. You don't tell a diabetic to "start making insulin". You give them insulin. Their lives are not easy and they have to take extra care of themselves, but they do lead productive lives.

    I take an anti-depressant, otherwise I wouldn't even get out of bed in the morning. But I also must exercise, watch what I eat, keep up socially & spiritually (isolating is the worst thing you can do for depression). If I don't do these other "therapies" I go right down hill again. So medication is never enough for me - and probably not for anyone else. On the other hand, without my meds I'd be 6ft under by now.

    If you are chronically depressed, get help - but don't expect the little pill to be a quick fix.

  51. Daran
    February 28th, 2009 at 6:42 pm

    I tried therapy for a year. I was on 5 different kinds of meds for all that time. nothing worked. i am incurable. eventually my psychiatrist diagnosed me as a borderline personality... it started out as dysthymic but as the meds she gave me had no effect she changed the diagnosis... i do what jim carrey does & i dont think many people realise how deeply depressed i am... i am 30... single & have no prospects of a relationship... i might try therapy again but it's such a huge expense to pay for me to tell someone how i feel and draw my own conclusions from it...

  52. seeker
    July 5th, 2009 at 8:46 am

    armadillo,

    you know what you're talking about---the best advice so far.

  53. Evans
    November 4th, 2009 at 9:08 am

    People should remember that SSRIs will temporarily make you go much lower at first. It helps if you do not live alone during this period.


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