My maternal grandfather was a combat surgeon in WW1. He told me of troops singing Christmas carols to each other. Remember seeing a German belt buckle that has "Got Mit Uns" on it. Sad that all the killing still went on.
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My first question upon reading the spreadsheet was "What did he say or do, exactly, to initiate sex?" I suspect that around 50% of the issue is her drawing away, and another 50% or so is how he chooses to get her in the mood.
Speaking from my own marriage, I can usually tell if my wife might be receptive before I initiate anything, and I know how to initiate in a way that will make her more receptive. With this guy, we have no idea, since he only records her responses and nothing of how he chose the time and his actions in the initiation.
It makes me think this guy is probably going about it all wrong and is either hiding it or unaware of it.
and dreamed of the way that I was for you and you were for me.
And we longed to dance the night away..."
Speaking from my own marriage, I can usually tell if my wife might be receptive before I initiate anything, and I know how to initiate in a way that will make her more receptive. With this guy, we have no idea, since he only records her responses and nothing of how he chose the time and his actions in the initiation.
It makes me think this guy is probably going about it all wrong and is either hiding it or unaware of it.