Excuses, Excuses

Some people sabotage themselves by setting up an excuse for failure before even trying something.
Psychologists have studied this sort of behavior since at least 1978, when Steven Berglas and Edward E. Jones used the phrase “self-handicapping” to describe students in a study who chose to take a drug that they were told would inhibit their performance on an exam (the drug was actually inert).

The urge goes well beyond a mere lowering of expectations, and it has more to do with protecting self-image than with psychological conflicts rooted in early development, in the Freudian sense. Recent research has helped clarify not just who is prone to self-handicapping but also its consequences — and its possible benefits.

Link -via Lifehacker

One of the many mental traps I can relate to. I've been reading a good book on how we set our selves up to fall into them, and how to notice them and prevent ourselves from falling into them.
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Ahh, I just re-read it.

The urge goes well beyond a mere lowering of expectations, and it has more to do with protecting self-image than with psychological conflicts rooted in early development, in the Freudian sense.

I guess tend to mentally block out the word "Freudian" whenever I come across it. I used to roll my eyes whenever that name was mentioned. He was too sure of himself with subjects that had more depth then he explained them to have. I consider his work "Micky Mouse Psychology".
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This is an interesting conundrum. Ben Franklin said that planning for failure is superior to planning for success. My opinion is that one should plan for both and not allow excuses for either.
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Self-entrapment? Well, it's accurate in some sense since I do sometimes end up trapping myself with excuses not to work or study. But then they always end up getting blown out of proportion due to rising issues or complications.
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