Oxford Word of the Year 2009: Unfriend

By Miss Cellania in Blogs & Internet, Book & Literature on Nov 17, 2009 at 10:46 am

Social networking on the internet has given us plenty of new words and terms (such as “social networking”), and the New Oxford American Dictionary is paying attention. The publishers announced that “unfriend” is their word of the year for 2009.

unfriend – verb – To remove someone as a ‘friend’ on a social networking site such as Facebook.

As in, “I decided to unfriend my roommate on Facebook after we had a fight.”

“It has both currency and potential longevity,” notes Christine Lindberg, Senior Lexicographer for Oxford’s US dictionary program. “In the online social networking context, its meaning is understood, so its adoption as a modern verb form makes this an interesting choice for Word of the Year. Most “un-” prefixed words are adjectives (unacceptable, unpleasant), and there are certainly some familiar “un-” verbs (uncap, unpack), but “unfriend” is different from the norm. It assumes a verb sense of “friend” that is really not used (at least not since maybe the 17th century!). Unfriend has real lex-appeal.”

Other words considered for the honor included hashtag, sexting, and paywall, all of which are unfamiliar to my spellchecker. Link -via Mashable


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  1. Nick
    Nov 17th, 2009 at 11:58 am

    I thought it was ‘defriend’…

  2. Chris Johnston
    Nov 17th, 2009 at 11:58 am

    Actually, I thought the correct term was “defriend”.

  3. Miss Cellania
    Nov 17th, 2009 at 12:25 pm

    Defriend would be a better choice to conform to the (rather fluid) rules of English. However, for this word and others like it, you can probably blame the geek who came up with “undo” as a computer command.

  4. Howard
    Nov 17th, 2009 at 12:30 pm

    I just defriended the Oxford Dictionary.

  5. pwscott
    Nov 17th, 2009 at 4:29 pm

    You know most of the people I’ve found on Facebook were ones I haven’t seen in years. I think they were refriended. Of course if I didn’t like them they became exfriends or disfriended. :p

  6. lapidus
    Nov 17th, 2009 at 9:23 pm

    MC. agreed here. Also, does that mean you would prefer to see “Dedo” under the edit menu? :-3

  7. Miss Cellania
    Nov 17th, 2009 at 9:59 pm

    Haha! I think “oops” would be just as good.

  8. m.wright
    Nov 17th, 2009 at 11:59 pm

    this is newspeak! thanks mr.orwell

  9. Moe
    Dec 2nd, 2009 at 6:51 pm

    Speaking of spell check, if you type an email in Gmail, Gmail will reject the word as incorrectly spelled.


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