Psst - there's a verbal virus that's been going around for years and you've probably been infected. But don't worry, it may be annoying but it's absolutely benign:
Jeff Benanto, a manager at a marketing company in Boston, Massachusetts, says he didn't even know he was overusing the word until he was teased by his sister and brother-in-law.
He says it finally hit him when he was recently having dinner with his family. Someone asked him if he wanted stuffing with his turkey.
"Absolutely."
Benanto says he and others are using the word so much because it's reassuring. He says people don't know if their 401(k) will be secure; their children's toys free of lead or if their favorite public figure is going to be exposed as a hypocrite.
But using absolutely makes one feel as if there is something someone can count on, even if one has doubts, he says.
"There's a certainty in absolutely," Benanto says. "Even if you don't absolutely mean it, you need to express it and feel it like you mean it."
i say it.. a lot, apparently..
I have a coworker that like, he like, like, like, I dunno, he like, say LIKE, like a million times a day. like. drives me NUTZ
The New England area also has an ad series for a group of car lots where the owner says "Absolutely" in some arcane accent. No doubt that's where he picked it up, along with billions of others who've seen the ads for the last thirty years.
I'm sure that the rise in word usage can't be completely because of television, but it's so common on that show, my mind couldn't help but go there!
'literally' is my least favorite word misuse.
"I was so mad-- literally!!!"
drives me crazy :P