Comments on: Toddler Dancing to Beyoncé: Cute or Disturbing? http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/ The Neat Side of the Web Mon, 09 Nov 2009 22:41:37 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: NotComatizedbyTV http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1864466 NotComatizedbyTV Wed, 30 Sep 2009 21:17:45 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1864466 I think it is disturbing that people watch MTV at all... much better things to do with your time. We learn so much when we are young... much more than we are capable to as adults. The difference is that children don't have any life experience to decide for themselves what is COOL, right, wrong, innapropriate, intelligent, dumb... they look to the allowances, prodding, reaction etc of adults and others to decide for them. I believe in positive reinforcement especially for our children. I don't look up to and would not want my children looking up to Beyonce. I vote disturbing for most of the reasons listed above. We don't have enough experience with this kind of TV (and certain video games for that matter) to see the magnitude of how it will affect future generations. So far I think that we can tell that it has destroyed many. At least it has limited the ambition of many and altered realities. Look at the statistics of age groups (starting at 0 months) and how much time the spend watching TV daily. Go read a book! Read your children books. Encourage positive behaviour. I think it is disturbing that people watch MTV at all... much better things to do with your time.

We learn so much when we are young... much more than we are capable to as adults. The difference is that children don't have any life experience to decide for themselves what is COOL, right, wrong, innapropriate, intelligent, dumb... they look to the allowances, prodding, reaction etc of adults and others to decide for them.

I believe in positive reinforcement especially for our children. I don't look up to and would not want my children looking up to Beyonce.

I vote disturbing for most of the reasons listed above.

We don't have enough experience with this kind of TV (and certain video games for that matter) to see the magnitude of how it will affect future generations. So far I think that we can tell that it has destroyed many. At least it has limited the ambition of many and altered realities.

Look at the statistics of age groups (starting at 0 months) and how much time the spend watching TV daily.

Go read a book! Read your children books. Encourage positive behaviour.

]]> By: Sundai http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1437083 Sundai Mon, 02 Feb 2009 15:46:02 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1437083 I'm the biggest fan. I got all your albums. The diva song is so tite girl. Is you girlly girl? I'm the biggest fan. I got all your albums. The diva song is so tite girl. Is you girlly girl?

]]> By: jessica http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1379477 jessica Wed, 14 Jan 2009 18:56:55 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1379477 How do you even KNOW for a fact she was watching it on MTV??? Maybe she heard it on the radio and got the video off of cable? Most cable providers now provide music and music video channels that are specifically ALL music.... How do you even KNOW for a fact she was watching it on MTV??? Maybe she heard it on the radio and got the video off of cable? Most cable providers now provide music and music video channels that are specifically ALL music....

]]> By: just a guy http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1328256 just a guy Wed, 31 Dec 2008 13:12:41 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1328256 The act itself is cute and innocent. It's a little girl dancing to music. The distubing part is that someone who KNOWS the content of the song/video she's dancing to (assumption: her parents?) and decides to tape it and put it on youtube. That person would have to be all sorts of nieve to not see the implications of putting such a thing ON THE INTERNET. Its not like it's on VHS for her grandparents to see. "Everybody knows that there are tons of 'bad people' on the internet." The act itself is cute and innocent. It's a little girl dancing to music.

The distubing part is that someone who KNOWS the content of the song/video she's dancing to (assumption: her parents?) and decides to tape it and put it on youtube. That person would have to be all sorts of nieve to not see the implications of putting such a thing ON THE INTERNET. Its not like it's on VHS for her grandparents to see. "Everybody knows that there are tons of 'bad people' on the internet."

]]> By: ted http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1328248 ted Wed, 31 Dec 2008 13:09:16 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1328248 I doubt a pedophile would find that any more exciting than any other dumb videos of a kid moving around. Watched about 30 seconds of it: bo-ring. I doubt a pedophile would find that any more exciting than any other dumb videos of a kid moving around. Watched about 30 seconds of it: bo-ring.

]]> By: tumplerumpatay http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1328019 tumplerumpatay Wed, 31 Dec 2008 07:14:11 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1328019 She is dressed the same and I assure you that at that age, she does not know the difference. Arianna just likes to sing and dance just like Beyonce did at that age. Not disturbing at all. Practice young and often and you too could be a Beyonce some day. She is dressed the same and I assure you that at that age, she does not know the difference. Arianna just likes to sing and dance just like Beyonce did at that age. Not disturbing at all. Practice young and often and you too could be a Beyonce some day.

]]> By: mikos http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1327403 mikos Wed, 31 Dec 2008 01:15:49 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1327403 A girl dancing to a music video. Unremarkable. A girl dancing to a music video. Unremarkable.

]]> By: Skipweasel http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1326838 Skipweasel Tue, 30 Dec 2008 17:22:53 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1326838 A small girl of my accquaintance has been known to trampoline naked in the snow just for the fun of it. The neighbours don't give a hoot and neither do we. If she's still doing it at 16 I'll worry, but she's got a decade in which to learn a spot of modesty - which they generally do. However - I didn't film it and put it on YouTube. A small girl of my accquaintance has been known to trampoline naked in the snow just for the fun of it. The neighbours don't give a hoot and neither do we. If she's still doing it at 16 I'll worry, but she's got a decade in which to learn a spot of modesty - which they generally do.

However - I didn't film it and put it on YouTube.

]]> By: TwoDragons http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1326837 TwoDragons Tue, 30 Dec 2008 17:19:17 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1326837 Disturbing. Definitely disturbing. --TwoDragons Disturbing. Definitely disturbing.

--TwoDragons

]]> By: Toasti http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1326818 Toasti Tue, 30 Dec 2008 16:28:46 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1326818 Wait...MTV plays music videos???? I know, I know- it is the Gen X war cry. I could not resist. I vote *mildly* disturbing. Wait...MTV plays music videos????

I know, I know- it is the Gen X war cry. I could not resist.

I vote *mildly* disturbing.

]]> By: Ajan http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1326778 Ajan Tue, 30 Dec 2008 15:16:33 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1326778 She's just having fun!! Can't know unless she turns 10 or somethin like that!!!.. She's just having fun!! Can't know unless she turns 10 or somethin like that!!!..

]]> By: Silvia http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1326613 Silvia Tue, 30 Dec 2008 13:10:54 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1326613 Disturbing... What her parents have in mind? The question here isn't what the little girl think or know about what she is doing, but her parents believes and values. Sad! Quiet sad! Disturbing...
What her parents have in mind?
The question here isn't what the little girl think or know about what she is doing, but her parents believes and values.
Sad! Quiet sad!

]]> By: tona b. http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1326506 tona b. Tue, 30 Dec 2008 07:35:28 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1326506 I just see a little girl having fun dancing. All the dirtiness is originating in all of you folks' uptight brains. I just see a little girl having fun dancing.

All the dirtiness is originating in all of you folks' uptight brains.

]]> By: Bee http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1326364 Bee Tue, 30 Dec 2008 06:27:46 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1326364 As others have said. She's just repeating what she sees, all children do that. And one more thing, Beyoncé’s thighs are huge! I'm hungry for some fried chicken drumsticks now. As others have said. She's just repeating what she sees, all children do that. And one more thing, Beyoncé’s thighs are huge! I'm hungry for some fried chicken drumsticks now.

]]> By: Britt http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1326188 Britt Tue, 30 Dec 2008 05:05:11 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1326188 Her goofing around in her own home isn't disturbing. Hell, I had a stupid show called 'Barenaked and Stylish' when I was little, which was basically a bunch of stupid dancing/singing while getting into my pyjamas. The difference is that my parents didn't tape it and put it on the Internet. Her goofing around in her own home isn't disturbing. Hell, I had a stupid show called 'Barenaked and Stylish' when I was little, which was basically a bunch of stupid dancing/singing while getting into my pyjamas.

The difference is that my parents didn't tape it and put it on the Internet.

]]> By: Ali S. http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1325982 Ali S. Tue, 30 Dec 2008 03:43:01 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1325982 Whoa...there is a disturbance in the force. Whoa...there is a disturbance in the force.

]]> By: BlessedBlogger http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1325881 BlessedBlogger Tue, 30 Dec 2008 03:01:27 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1325881 I vote disturbing. I vote disturbing.

]]> By: meggymoo http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1325769 meggymoo Tue, 30 Dec 2008 02:13:20 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1325769 I dont think this is disturbing at all I have seen much stranger and scarier things but this is just a little girl dancing. When I was in ballet class as a sweet little 5 year old I was dressed in a leotard dancing to my boy lollypop and the opening move was a line of us bent over shaking our bums to the audience. Maybe you only see it as sexual because the whole sex thing has been sensationalised and the media love putting out stories about peados so something that used to be innocent is now seen as dangerous I dont think this is disturbing at all I have seen much stranger and scarier things but this is just a little girl dancing. When I was in ballet class as a sweet little 5 year old I was dressed in a leotard dancing to my boy lollypop and the opening move was a line of us bent over shaking our bums to the audience. Maybe you only see it as sexual because the whole sex thing has been sensationalised and the media love putting out stories about peados so something that used to be innocent is now seen as dangerous

]]> By: Athena5026 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1325660 Athena5026 Tue, 30 Dec 2008 01:32:43 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1325660 I realize that scantily clad was in reference to Beyonce, however... she too is dressed in a leotard. One shoulder is left bare, while the other arm is in a long sleeve. Still, it's a leotard. Not exactly "Like a Virgin." I realize that scantily clad was in reference to Beyonce, however... she too is dressed in a leotard. One shoulder is left bare, while the other arm is in a long sleeve. Still, it's a leotard. Not exactly "Like a Virgin."

]]> By: Evilbeagle http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1325585 Evilbeagle Tue, 30 Dec 2008 01:01:43 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1325585 I don't think that a dancing little girl is disturbing or sexualized, even if the dance is to Beyonce. All little kids imitate what they see if it grabs their attention, and I don't know of many parents that will sanitize their music because their kid might be around, nor do I feel that they should. I know I was singing and dancing to Zeppelin when I was her age. What I find disturbing is that her parents would put it on YouTube where people who would sexualize it can watch it for their sick entertainment. Even if YouTube had been around when I was three, I can bet my big toe that my parents wouldn't want the world to watch their little darling screeching, "Squeeze my lemon..." no matter how innocent it was for me. I don't think that a dancing little girl is disturbing or sexualized, even if the dance is to Beyonce. All little kids imitate what they see if it grabs their attention, and I don't know of many parents that will sanitize their music because their kid might be around, nor do I feel that they should. I know I was singing and dancing to Zeppelin when I was her age.

What I find disturbing is that her parents would put it on YouTube where people who would sexualize it can watch it for their sick entertainment. Even if YouTube had been around when I was three, I can bet my big toe that my parents wouldn't want the world to watch their little darling screeching, "Squeeze my lemon..." no matter how innocent it was for me.

]]> By: Sock Poppette http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1325494 Sock Poppette Tue, 30 Dec 2008 00:26:19 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1325494 What about this? Great song, video...hang on...what are those lyrics?...is that children dancing??? hmmmm.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O_UCks8O0FA What about this? Great song, video...hang on...what are those lyrics?...is that children dancing??? hmmmm....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O_UCks8O0FA

]]> By: liphttam1 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1325429 liphttam1 Mon, 29 Dec 2008 23:58:44 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1325429 Disturbing. Disturbing.

]]> By: LisaL http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1325394 LisaL Mon, 29 Dec 2008 23:50:38 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1325394 The girl is cute, don't think what she's doing is though. It's not nearly as bad as another video that won on America's Funniest Home Video. It was of a little girl and her daddy, Beyonce once again playing in the background, daddy opens up the cabinet and out pops the girl that couldn't be more than 2 yrs old (if that)... and there she is in her diaper shaking her butt like a pro. It's NOT cute seeing toddlers shaking their ass like it's their job. The girl is cute, don't think what she's doing is though. It's not nearly as bad as another video that won on America's Funniest Home Video.
It was of a little girl and her daddy, Beyonce once again playing in the background, daddy opens up the cabinet and out pops the girl that couldn't be more than 2 yrs old (if that)... and there she is in her diaper shaking her butt like a pro. It's NOT cute seeing toddlers shaking their ass like it's their job.

]]> By: sigh http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1325370 sigh Mon, 29 Dec 2008 23:46:32 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1325370 Future pole dancer. Future pole dancer.

]]> By: Cindy y http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1324670 Cindy y Mon, 29 Dec 2008 21:22:26 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1324670 It's disturbing that people, especially parents, don't think about television as anything more than entertainment. For a child, everything is new. Almost everything they hear becomes part of their reality because they don't have the "common sense" or old information to negate anything. The culture, language, imagery, everything on the television is absorbed. Television, and the world inside it, just becomes a fact of life. It sucks that kids aren't taught, but left to fend for themselves, knee-deep in a kaleidoscope of images. More and more people are growing up as children of the media, and life imitates art imitates life... I'm not trying to say that television is the scourge of the humans, or that this girl has bad parents. But I mean, a house with the TV blaring all day just doesn't seem like an appropriate environment for the growing future leaders of the world. It's disturbing that people, especially parents, don't think about television as anything more than entertainment. For a child, everything is new. Almost everything they hear becomes part of their reality because they don't have the "common sense" or old information to negate anything. The culture, language, imagery, everything on the television is absorbed. Television, and the world inside it, just becomes a fact of life. It sucks that kids aren't taught, but left to fend for themselves, knee-deep in a kaleidoscope of images. More and more people are growing up as children of the media, and life imitates art imitates life...

I'm not trying to say that television is the scourge of the humans, or that this girl has bad parents. But I mean, a house with the TV blaring all day just doesn't seem like an appropriate environment for the growing future leaders of the world.

]]> By: v http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1324658 v Mon, 29 Dec 2008 21:18:44 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1324658 Disturbing. Both for her dancing and taste in music. Disturbing. Both for her dancing and taste in music.

]]> By: SydneyClaire http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1324621 SydneyClaire Mon, 29 Dec 2008 21:11:54 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1324621 Athena, I think 'scantily clad' refers to Beyonce, not Arianna. Athena, I think 'scantily clad' refers to Beyonce, not Arianna.

]]> By: GailW http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1324547 GailW Mon, 29 Dec 2008 20:56:47 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1324547 I don't think her dancing is "accurate" enough to be "disturbing." And I doubt she has any idea what they are singing. I don't think her dancing is "accurate" enough to be "disturbing." And I doubt she has any idea what they are singing.

]]> By: Athena5026 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1324491 Athena5026 Mon, 29 Dec 2008 20:44:24 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1324491 I just have issue with the term "scantily clad." She's wearing a friggin' leotard. Please... never go the the beach, or even attend a children's dance recital. Apparently, I too was "scantily clad" as early as two. My parents must have been horrible degenerates... Suprisingly, I didn't start selling my body at 16 :P I just have issue with the term "scantily clad." She's wearing a friggin' leotard. Please... never go the the beach, or even attend a children's dance recital. Apparently, I too was "scantily clad" as early as two. My parents must have been horrible degenerates... Suprisingly, I didn't start selling my body at 16 :P

]]> By: SydneyClaire http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/comment-page-1/#comment-1324447 SydneyClaire Mon, 29 Dec 2008 20:36:09 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/2008/12/29/toddler-dancing-to-beyonce-cute-or-disturbing/#comment-1324447 The kid is cute, the dancing is disturbing. Guess we know who the main babysitter is in that house. The kid is cute, the dancing is disturbing. Guess we know who the main babysitter is in that house.

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