Comments on: Hard Times for "Other Women" http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/ The Neat Side of the Web Wed, 25 Nov 2009 16:06:26 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Evilbeagle http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1214490 Evilbeagle Wed, 26 Nov 2008 09:10:01 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/?p=21047#comment-1214490 @bb I can't speak for anyone else, but I will tell you why I care. I have no respect for the person straying or the person they do it with because it is dishonesty at its ugliest. If a person is not happy with their partner, they should leave that person rather than punish them with betrayal, whatever the reason, even if it is as shallow as a person "letting themselves go". Cheating is the lowest form of betrayal and it's cowardly. The person that they are sleeping with, if they are aware that this person is married, is cheap trash for doing it, and they deserve any heartbreak they suffer in the process because it in no way compares to what the betrayed spouse must be going through. I have watched a person close to me suffer through infidelity and while I am generally tolerant of what people do behind closed doors, I lose a lot of respect for anyone that would have an affair. A spouse never has to stray. They could actually grow a spine and address the issues in their marriage, fix them, or get out. @bb

I can't speak for anyone else, but I will tell you why I care. I have no respect for the person straying or the person they do it with because it is dishonesty at its ugliest. If a person is not happy with their partner, they should leave that person rather than punish them with betrayal, whatever the reason, even if it is as shallow as a person "letting themselves go".

Cheating is the lowest form of betrayal and it's cowardly. The person that they are sleeping with, if they are aware that this person is married, is cheap trash for doing it, and they deserve any heartbreak they suffer in the process because it in no way compares to what the betrayed spouse must be going through.

I have watched a person close to me suffer through infidelity and while I am generally tolerant of what people do behind closed doors, I lose a lot of respect for anyone that would have an affair. A spouse never has to stray. They could actually grow a spine and address the issues in their marriage, fix them, or get out.

]]> By: bb http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1214171 bb Wed, 26 Nov 2008 04:33:55 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/?p=21047#comment-1214171 Why do you people care if other people have lovers outside of their marriage? Quite a strong response from some of you. And weird. Why do you people care if other people have lovers outside of their marriage? Quite a strong response from some of you. And weird.

]]> By: ted http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1214144 ted Wed, 26 Nov 2008 04:13:15 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/?p=21047#comment-1214144 I would have to agree with mikos. The people we should be blaming are the wives who let themesleves go in the first place. If they kept their partners' interest, they wouldn't have to stray. I would have to agree with mikos. The people we should be blaming are the wives who let themesleves go in the first place. If they kept their partners' interest, they wouldn't have to stray.

]]> By: Rocky Rook http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1213945 Rocky Rook Wed, 26 Nov 2008 02:26:34 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/?p=21047#comment-1213945 There's a survey on this subject?! There's a survey on this subject?!

]]> By: Evilbeagle http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1212115 Evilbeagle Tue, 25 Nov 2008 09:23:29 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/?p=21047#comment-1212115 mikos, I blame both parties involved in the affair. Both of them are complete lowlifes as far as I am concerned. mikos, I blame both parties involved in the affair. Both of them are complete lowlifes as far as I am concerned.

]]> By: WordyGrrl http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1211614 WordyGrrl Tue, 25 Nov 2008 03:29:58 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/?p=21047#comment-1211614 "Sanctity of marriage", "DOMA", cough...cough. "Sanctity of marriage", "DOMA", cough...cough.

]]> By: mikos http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1211467 mikos Tue, 25 Nov 2008 01:39:55 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/?p=21047#comment-1211467 Its funny how the "others" are getting most of the blame for some reason... They are not the ones who are married... Its funny how the "others" are getting most of the blame for some reason... They are not the ones who are married...

]]> By: Fizzle http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1211405 Fizzle Tue, 25 Nov 2008 00:57:55 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/?p=21047#comment-1211405 HA HA HA HA, Get off your back and get a JOB Bitches HA HA HA HA, Get off your back and get a JOB Bitches

]]> By: DOJ http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1211371 DOJ Tue, 25 Nov 2008 00:44:09 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/?p=21047#comment-1211371 They need a BAILOUT! They need a BAILOUT!

]]> By: I'm with stupid http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1211140 I'm with stupid Mon, 24 Nov 2008 22:03:56 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/?p=21047#comment-1211140 Sid Morrison says to keep all these disgusting sluts away from children before their values are corrupted. Sid Morrison says to keep all these disgusting sluts away from children before their values are corrupted.

]]> By: TheDiversePurse http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1211067 TheDiversePurse Mon, 24 Nov 2008 21:10:28 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/?p=21047#comment-1211067 @baffled: I agree, it is quite disturbing. But, the men and women whom the survey asked were the "breadwinners" and they're millionaires. With that comes power and they probably admitted to their cheating ways because they feel they can do what they want. Who knows, maybe their lawfully wedded partners know about their side affairs. Some men and women turn the other way as long as they're being "kept". *Sigh* Marriage. @baffled: I agree, it is quite disturbing. But, the men and women whom the survey asked were the "breadwinners" and they're millionaires. With that comes power and they probably admitted to their cheating ways because they feel they can do what they want. Who knows, maybe their lawfully wedded partners know about their side affairs. Some men and women turn the other way as long as they're being "kept". *Sigh* Marriage.

]]> By: Jodi http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1210964 Jodi Mon, 24 Nov 2008 20:12:50 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/?p=21047#comment-1210964 Well this is a good thing because if I was still married to my cheating husband he probably would have spent money on her instead of me! The only thing he ever gave me was the diamond engagement ring he gave to me when he proposed. But after we divorced I was so upset to learn he cheated that sold it to on www.idonowidont.com for some closure. It's all about being single this Christmas! Well this is a good thing because if I was still married to my cheating husband he probably would have spent money on her instead of me!

The only thing he ever gave me was the diamond engagement ring he gave to me when he proposed. But after we divorced I was so upset to learn he cheated that sold it to on http://www.idonowidont.com for some closure.

It's all about being single this Christmas!

]]> By: baffled http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1210944 baffled Mon, 24 Nov 2008 19:58:57 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/?p=21047#comment-1210944 Why even bother getting married in the first place. Doesn't it bother anyone else that so many people actually responded that they cheat on their spouse? And those are only the ones who admit it. It makes me sick and also reinforces my stance on marriage. (In case you don't get it, I'm against it.) Why even bother getting married in the first place. Doesn't it bother anyone else that so many people actually responded that they cheat on their spouse? And those are only the ones who admit it. It makes me sick and also reinforces my stance on marriage. (In case you don't get it, I'm against it.)

]]> By: Evilbeagle http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1210669 Evilbeagle Mon, 24 Nov 2008 16:25:07 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/?p=21047#comment-1210669 Good point, Gail Pink, but still... if the "other" was doing that well, then the financially strapped idiot sleeping with them would choose him/her over their spouse, wouldn't they? That would really save some money. I think I must have been cheated on in a past life or something because this sort of thing just makes me smile. Of course, the woman showering her lover with gifts during a financial crisis is just idiotic. Good point, Gail Pink, but still... if the "other" was doing that well, then the financially strapped idiot sleeping with them would choose him/her over their spouse, wouldn't they? That would really save some money. I think I must have been cheated on in a past life or something because this sort of thing just makes me smile.

Of course, the woman showering her lover with gifts during a financial crisis is just idiotic.

]]> By: Gail Pink http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1210656 Gail Pink Mon, 24 Nov 2008 16:09:36 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/?p=21047#comment-1210656 It still sounds to me as if being the "Other woman" (or man) is a fairly good deal. It still sounds to me as if being the "Other woman" (or man) is a fairly good deal.

]]> By: Evilbeagle http://www.neatorama.com/2008/11/24/hard-times-for-other-women/comment-page-1/#comment-1210604 Evilbeagle Mon, 24 Nov 2008 15:20:41 +0000 http://www.neatorama.com/?p=21047#comment-1210604 Well, that's one good thing about an economic crisis. It hurts the skanks that hurt families. Well, that's one good thing about an economic crisis. It hurts the skanks that hurt families.

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