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	<title>Comments on: The Pregnant Husband: Transgender Man Expecting a Baby</title>
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		<title>By: jesus</title>
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		<dc:creator>jesus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 16:13:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>it just looks funky cos looks like a pregant man!!

but for real this is really a woman so its not that impressive... all that it proves is that whatever freak pills she has been taking to become so manly have not devastated her reproductive system!...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>it just looks funky cos looks like a pregant man!!</p>
<p>but for real this is really a woman so its not that impressive... all that it proves is that whatever freak pills she has been taking to become so manly have not devastated her reproductive system!...</p>
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		<title>By: A. B.</title>
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		<dc:creator>A. B.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 05:26:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Now is this a pregnant man or what.

http://abcnews.go.com/Health/popup?id=2024851&amp;contentIndex=1&amp;page=49&amp;start=false</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Now is this a pregnant man or what.</p>
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		<title>By: Karah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jul 2008 18:47:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is an awkward situation. Mainly due to the fact that it had to go public. This person is legally male, and you wouldn&#039;t have been able to tell if he hadn&#039;t decided to have a child.

To me, being transgendered means living as the opposite gender and passing as that gender in public. I am sure this man must get odd looks now that he decided to go through with this.

He had the sex change surgery in the first place in order to function as a male, and yet he births a child? Wow...ok.  I am all for being who you truly are inside, but not being a freak.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is an awkward situation. Mainly due to the fact that it had to go public. This person is legally male, and you wouldn't have been able to tell if he hadn't decided to have a child.</p>
<p>To me, being transgendered means living as the opposite gender and passing as that gender in public. I am sure this man must get odd looks now that he decided to go through with this.</p>
<p>He had the sex change surgery in the first place in order to function as a male, and yet he births a child? Wow...ok.  I am all for being who you truly are inside, but not being a freak.</p>
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		<title>By: webmss</title>
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		<dc:creator>webmss</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 03:46:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How can he be legally a man if he has no penis? Does he have a penis and a vagina? I guess that&#039;s possible. Wow, what a freak! Men and women get married and woman have babies. That&#039;s the way it should be. Not this freaky same sex marriage and men having babies. I think I am watching a science fiction movie!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How can he be legally a man if he has no penis? Does he have a penis and a vagina? I guess that's possible. Wow, what a freak! Men and women get married and woman have babies. That's the way it should be. Not this freaky same sex marriage and men having babies. I think I am watching a science fiction movie!</p>
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		<title>By: Naila</title>
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		<dc:creator>Naila</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jun 2008 12:22:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Story is ridiculous.....what man is born with overies? If there are overies then (he) is a she period....I don&#039;t care how many hormones or what if there are overies then its a woman who is pregnant....can&#039;t be call a he or husband....so funny</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Story is ridiculous.....what man is born with overies? If there are overies then (he) is a she period....I don't care how many hormones or what if there are overies then its a woman who is pregnant....can't be call a he or husband....so funny</p>
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		<title>By: DOCK</title>
		<link>http://www.neatorama.com/2008/03/25/the-pregnant-husband-transgender-man-expecting-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-492984</link>
		<dc:creator>DOCK</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Mar 2008 02:15:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sure, that child will turn out well adjusted.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sure, that child will turn out well adjusted.</p>
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		<title>By: Suzie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Suzie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 15:56:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Transgender- has to do with Gender identity.  It is saying that gender (male/female) is different than sex (penis/vagina).  
Bottom line, you might not like it, but you dont have to- it&#039;s not your life.  
Chances are 50% of transgender people- you wouldn&#039;t even know they were born a different gender, without them outing themselves or giving them a physical.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Transgender- has to do with Gender identity.  It is saying that gender (male/female) is different than sex (penis/vagina).<br />
Bottom line, you might not like it, but you dont have to- it's not your life.<br />
Chances are 50% of transgender people- you wouldn't even know they were born a different gender, without them outing themselves or giving them a physical.</p>
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		<title>By: ted</title>
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		<dc:creator>ted</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 00:23:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This isn&#039;t really a case of diversity and acceptance  - it&#039;s a case of a very confused woman. They are a same-sex couple, since they are both females. If she were not a female, she wouldn&#039;t be pregnant.

If the person playing the man&#039;s role were truly serious about living life as a man, then she would not be pregnant. Otherwise, she&#039;s being hypocritical in her desire to play the man&#039;s role in the family. You can strap a dildo on her, but she&#039;s still a woman who wants to have her cake and eat it, too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This isn't really a case of diversity and acceptance  - it's a case of a very confused woman. They are a same-sex couple, since they are both females. If she were not a female, she wouldn't be pregnant.</p>
<p>If the person playing the man's role were truly serious about living life as a man, then she would not be pregnant. Otherwise, she's being hypocritical in her desire to play the man's role in the family. You can strap a dildo on her, but she's still a woman who wants to have her cake and eat it, too.</p>
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		<title>By: someguy</title>
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		<dc:creator>someguy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 21:54:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>astrodex,

I am not exactly sure what your point is. This woman is free to do whatever she wishes with her body. But she cannot become male by changing the way she looks and taking hormones. That is the truth that is not generally acknowledged. It wouldn&#039;t be the first time that a significant portion of the medical/scientific community is wrong.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>astrodex,</p>
<p>I am not exactly sure what your point is. This woman is free to do whatever she wishes with her body. But she cannot become male by changing the way she looks and taking hormones. That is the truth that is not generally acknowledged. It wouldn't be the first time that a significant portion of the medical/scientific community is wrong.</p>
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		<title>By: astrodex</title>
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		<dc:creator>astrodex</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 21:16:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;It’s interesting how people will pick and choose which mental disorders need to be treated and which need to be indulged. When a female thinks she is male, they say we should make her look like a male. Same deal with homosexuality.

However, when people have something like schizophrenia we need to treat it. &quot;

If a woman does not feel comfortable with her body because it doesn&#039;t fit with society&#039;s ideas of what her body should look like and she wishes to inflate her breasts to 3 times the size nature intended, that&#039;s okay. We &quot;indulge&quot; her. 

If she does not feel comfortable with her body because it doesn&#039;t fit with her own brain&#039;s ideas of what her body should look like and she wishes to remove her breasts she is sick and needs treatment.

Why do we have to make people feel wrong if they aren&#039;t exactly the way we say they should be? 

Watch all of Amanda Baggs&#039; videos on YouTube and you may learn something about diversity and acceptance.

http://www.youtube.com/user/silentmiaow

Of course, you have to want to learn.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>"It’s interesting how people will pick and choose which mental disorders need to be treated and which need to be indulged. When a female thinks she is male, they say we should make her look like a male. Same deal with homosexuality.</p>
<p>However, when people have something like schizophrenia we need to treat it. "</p>
<p>If a woman does not feel comfortable with her body because it doesn't fit with society's ideas of what her body should look like and she wishes to inflate her breasts to 3 times the size nature intended, that's okay. We "indulge" her. </p>
<p>If she does not feel comfortable with her body because it doesn't fit with her own brain's ideas of what her body should look like and she wishes to remove her breasts she is sick and needs treatment.</p>
<p>Why do we have to make people feel wrong if they aren't exactly the way we say they should be? </p>
<p>Watch all of Amanda Baggs' videos on YouTube and you may learn something about diversity and acceptance.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/silentmiaow" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/user/silentmiaow</a></p>
<p>Of course, you have to want to learn.</p>
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		<title>By: Cori</title>
		<link>http://www.neatorama.com/2008/03/25/the-pregnant-husband-transgender-man-expecting-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-490384</link>
		<dc:creator>Cori</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 16:46:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think this is an absolutely wonderful story. Mr. Beatie was intelligent to only publish in the Advocate, though, as it seems there is so much transphobia in the world. People all over the internet are calling them as a same sex couple, when it never even struck me to think of them that way. Maybe it&#039;s the fact I deal with homophobia all of the time, but I just can&#039;t fathom why people fear people because of their gender identity.

I was talking about this story with a friend. He told me he could accept gays, but he couldn&#039;t understand transsexuality. Why is it that big of an issue? So there are people in existence whose gender doesn&#039;t match their sex? Does that threaten people&#039;s conceptions of the world so much that they must reject it as immoral?

I&#039;m very happy for Mr. and Mrs. Beatie (oh goodness, though his name reminds me of the chief fire fighter in Fahrenheit 451), and I wish them the best. I hope that their story opens eyes inside and outside of the LGBT community.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think this is an absolutely wonderful story. Mr. Beatie was intelligent to only publish in the Advocate, though, as it seems there is so much transphobia in the world. People all over the internet are calling them as a same sex couple, when it never even struck me to think of them that way. Maybe it's the fact I deal with homophobia all of the time, but I just can't fathom why people fear people because of their gender identity.</p>
<p>I was talking about this story with a friend. He told me he could accept gays, but he couldn't understand transsexuality. Why is it that big of an issue? So there are people in existence whose gender doesn't match their sex? Does that threaten people's conceptions of the world so much that they must reject it as immoral?</p>
<p>I'm very happy for Mr. and Mrs. Beatie (oh goodness, though his name reminds me of the chief fire fighter in Fahrenheit 451), and I wish them the best. I hope that their story opens eyes inside and outside of the LGBT community.</p>
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		<title>By: someguy</title>
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		<dc:creator>someguy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 16:12:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am used to having my intelligence insulted by those who have no legitimate argument.

It&#039;s interesting how people will pick and choose which mental disorders need to be treated and which need to be indulged. When a female thinks she is male, they say we should make her look like a male. Same deal with homosexuality. 

However, when people have something like schizophrenia we need to treat it. How can you say that someone with split personalities wasn&#039;t supposed to be born with 2 bodies? Maybe we should graft another head on to them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am used to having my intelligence insulted by those who have no legitimate argument.</p>
<p>It's interesting how people will pick and choose which mental disorders need to be treated and which need to be indulged. When a female thinks she is male, they say we should make her look like a male. Same deal with homosexuality. </p>
<p>However, when people have something like schizophrenia we need to treat it. How can you say that someone with split personalities wasn't supposed to be born with 2 bodies? Maybe we should graft another head on to them.</p>
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		<title>By: Matt</title>
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		<dc:creator>Matt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 13:33:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah yeah yeah...  So it&#039;s still technically a female that is pregnant.  Call back and let us know when a guy like Arnold Schwarzennegar (See the movie: Junior) gets preggers. M&#039;kay?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah yeah yeah...  So it's still technically a female that is pregnant.  Call back and let us know when a guy like Arnold Schwarzennegar (See the movie: Junior) gets preggers. M'kay?</p>
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		<title>By: AndyS</title>
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		<dc:creator>AndyS</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 11:30:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I question &quot;his&quot; trans status and thinks it makes a mockery of other trans people.  If &quot;he&quot; was a man, he would be willing to accept a man&#039;s life (i.e. not being able to have children).

What about all the beautiful kids already in the world needing parents?  Selfish, selfish, selfish pseudo-trannie.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I question "his" trans status and thinks it makes a mockery of other trans people.  If "he" was a man, he would be willing to accept a man's life (i.e. not being able to have children).</p>
<p>What about all the beautiful kids already in the world needing parents?  Selfish, selfish, selfish pseudo-trannie.</p>
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		<title>By: Parker</title>
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		<dc:creator>Parker</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 11:28:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First off, it&#039;s &#039;he&#039; and he makes it clear that he does not feel any less of a man doing this because he sees childbirth as a human/animal process, not a strictly female one. What he thinks and feels of his body is unique to him like it is for every other single person on earth. Who is anybody to dictate what we are and who we can be as individual human beings?  But to those of you who think it&#039;s unnatural or &#039;anti-evolutionary&#039; these words are falling on dumb and deaf ears.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First off, it's 'he' and he makes it clear that he does not feel any less of a man doing this because he sees childbirth as a human/animal process, not a strictly female one. What he thinks and feels of his body is unique to him like it is for every other single person on earth. Who is anybody to dictate what we are and who we can be as individual human beings?  But to those of you who think it's unnatural or 'anti-evolutionary' these words are falling on dumb and deaf ears.</p>
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		<title>By: fz</title>
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		<dc:creator>fz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 05:12:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s crazy if it is true!</description>
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		<title>By: ted</title>
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		<dc:creator>ted</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 03:22:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It sounds bogus because we&#039;ve heard this type of story before - &quot;hermaphrodite impregnates self&quot;, etc...

Upon further review, it appears that some of the facts agree with the story. You must cease taking testosterone in order to ovulate again and become pregnant. So it is possible. This woman, masquerading as a man, is now pregnant. Is she officially &quot;transgender&quot;? I would say she has betrayed her ideals for the chance to bear a child.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It sounds bogus because we've heard this type of story before - "hermaphrodite impregnates self", etc...</p>
<p>Upon further review, it appears that some of the facts agree with the story. You must cease taking testosterone in order to ovulate again and become pregnant. So it is possible. This woman, masquerading as a man, is now pregnant. Is she officially "transgender"? I would say she has betrayed her ideals for the chance to bear a child.</p>
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		<title>By: oakling</title>
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		<dc:creator>oakling</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 03:11:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This isn&#039;t by any means the first time this has happened, either. There was a (comparatively) high-profile instance where Matt Rice (who was married to Patrick Califia, both big figures in the LGBT community) got pregnant; it caused a ton of drama in the FTM (female-to-male transgendered) community, where a lot of very codependent people freaked out about whether that would be safe for the kid (he had stopped taking hormones long previously to make sure it would be safe) and whether it would magically justify all the transphobia in the world. (Yeah. That&#039;s how that works.) 

http://www.villagevoice.com/news/0025,califia-rice,15833,1.html has a pretty good essay by Patrick about it. 

It&#039;s happened a lot more than that, but usually it&#039;s a private affair.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This isn't by any means the first time this has happened, either. There was a (comparatively) high-profile instance where Matt Rice (who was married to Patrick Califia, both big figures in the LGBT community) got pregnant; it caused a ton of drama in the FTM (female-to-male transgendered) community, where a lot of very codependent people freaked out about whether that would be safe for the kid (he had stopped taking hormones long previously to make sure it would be safe) and whether it would magically justify all the transphobia in the world. (Yeah. That's how that works.) </p>
<p><a href="http://www.villagevoice.com/news/0025,califia-rice,15833,1.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.villagevoice.com/news/0025,califia-rice,15833,1.html</a> has a pretty good essay by Patrick about it. </p>
<p>It's happened a lot more than that, but usually it's a private affair.</p>
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		<title>By: Christophe</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christophe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 03:06:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I thought I had a beer belly, but maybe I&#039;m pregnant! OMG!

;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I thought I had a beer belly, but maybe I'm pregnant! OMG!</p>
<p> <img src='http://www.neatorama.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Sunny</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sunny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2008 00:58:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>bean,

It is very frustrating that you posted this:

&quot;The article said nothing of a male donor of sperm. Nor did they explain how a female who had undergone a sex change managed to have an embryo implanted in her uterus, via the plumbing of her brand new penis.&quot;

You specifically referenced the article, yet clearly did not actually read the article. All those points were, in fact, addressed. 

And, yes, they are, genetically speaking, both female. A fact they are clearly aware of. Hence the frequent references to &quot;transgender&quot; and &quot;transman.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>bean,</p>
<p>It is very frustrating that you posted this:</p>
<p>"The article said nothing of a male donor of sperm. Nor did they explain how a female who had undergone a sex change managed to have an embryo implanted in her uterus, via the plumbing of her brand new penis."</p>
<p>You specifically referenced the article, yet clearly did not actually read the article. All those points were, in fact, addressed. </p>
<p>And, yes, they are, genetically speaking, both female. A fact they are clearly aware of. Hence the frequent references to "transgender" and "transman."</p>
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		<title>By: Anon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2008 23:21:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ahhh never mind...I didn&#039;t read :(
he&#039;s transgender. sorry</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ahhh never mind...I didn't read <img src='http://www.neatorama.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
he's transgender. sorry</p>
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		<title>By: Anon</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anon</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2008 23:21:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>is he female? does he have a uterus? seriously, how is this possible unless he is genetically female...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>is he female? does he have a uterus? seriously, how is this possible unless he is genetically female...</p>
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		<title>By: Dawn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2008 22:48:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awesome!  Congrats to the expectant couple!  

And how awesome it it that one parent will get to carry the pregnancy and the other will get to nurse the baby????</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awesome!  Congrats to the expectant couple!  </p>
<p>And how awesome it it that one parent will get to carry the pregnancy and the other will get to nurse the baby????</p>
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		<title>By: RooGrrrl</title>
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		<dc:creator>RooGrrrl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2008 22:04:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is the greatest story ever. I love that this kind of thing can happen. 
I wonder if the mother (his wife) will take prolactin and be able to breastfeed? It would make more sense, since the father&#039;s already had chest surgery to remove his breasts. 

It&#039;s great to see that a loving, stable couple is bringing a child into this world that will be loved and cared for.

someguy: You are an ignorant twit. &quot;No logical way&quot;? What is that based on? Gender identity is a complex issue that your tiny mind clearly cannot comprehend. Not everyone is lucky enough to be born with a gender that matches their sex. 
Your definition of sanity is apparently bigotry, prejudice and ignorance.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the greatest story ever. I love that this kind of thing can happen.<br />
I wonder if the mother (his wife) will take prolactin and be able to breastfeed? It would make more sense, since the father's already had chest surgery to remove his breasts. </p>
<p>It's great to see that a loving, stable couple is bringing a child into this world that will be loved and cared for.</p>
<p>someguy: You are an ignorant twit. "No logical way"? What is that based on? Gender identity is a complex issue that your tiny mind clearly cannot comprehend. Not everyone is lucky enough to be born with a gender that matches their sex.<br />
Your definition of sanity is apparently bigotry, prejudice and ignorance.</p>
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		<title>By: someguy</title>
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		<dc:creator>someguy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2008 21:21:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Agreed: possible hoax

But if true, anyone who thinks this person is a man is kidding themselves. You can belittle those of us who see it otherwise as &quot;small-minded,&quot; but it&#039;s still ridiculous. Ignoring any moral judgements, there is no logical way someone could conclude that this person is male.

At least there are still some people with a little sanity about these kinds of things.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Agreed: possible hoax</p>
<p>But if true, anyone who thinks this person is a man is kidding themselves. You can belittle those of us who see it otherwise as "small-minded," but it's still ridiculous. Ignoring any moral judgements, there is no logical way someone could conclude that this person is male.</p>
<p>At least there are still some people with a little sanity about these kinds of things.</p>
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		<title>By: Willo the Wisp</title>
		<link>http://www.neatorama.com/2008/03/25/the-pregnant-husband-transgender-man-expecting-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-489581</link>
		<dc:creator>Willo the Wisp</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2008 19:44:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>L, why assume that such knowledge will be traumatic? I&#039;m sure the kid will be told as soon as it&#039;s able to understand, and will grow up perfectly well-adjusted.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>L, why assume that such knowledge will be traumatic? I'm sure the kid will be told as soon as it's able to understand, and will grow up perfectly well-adjusted.</p>
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		<title>By: erica</title>
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		<dc:creator>erica</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2008 18:55:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well I say congrats!! People are way too judgemental at times. :)

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well I say congrats!! People are way too judgemental at times. <img src='http://www.neatorama.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Jeannette</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jeannette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2008 18:42:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@those who call bogus: 

if you actually read the article, you&#039;ll find that they went to cryogenic sperm bank and got an anonymous donation, and then did a home insemination.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@those who call bogus: </p>
<p>if you actually read the article, you'll find that they went to cryogenic sperm bank and got an anonymous donation, and then did a home insemination.</p>
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		<title>By: L</title>
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		<dc:creator>L</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2008 18:03:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If this is what they want, great.  I would have two concerns, though.  First, what happened to his body after so many years of hormone therapy?  Is it really wise to allow him to carry a baby?  Will it screw up the kid&#039;s hormone system?  And second, how do you explain this to the kid without setting him/her up for a huge trauma?  &quot;You grew in daddy&#039;s tummy.&quot;  What?!?!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If this is what they want, great.  I would have two concerns, though.  First, what happened to his body after so many years of hormone therapy?  Is it really wise to allow him to carry a baby?  Will it screw up the kid's hormone system?  And second, how do you explain this to the kid without setting him/her up for a huge trauma?  "You grew in daddy's tummy."  What?!?!</p>
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		<title>By: JP</title>
		<link>http://www.neatorama.com/2008/03/25/the-pregnant-husband-transgender-man-expecting-a-baby/comment-page-1/#comment-489524</link>
		<dc:creator>JP</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Mar 2008 17:59:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>to clarify one point of bean&#039;s...

a number of transgender men never complete a bottom surgery (no fake penis).  Why? because current bottom surgeries are really ineffective and aesthetically poor.  

the number of commentators rejecting this without thought is fascinating.  does it frighten you that much?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>to clarify one point of bean's...</p>
<p>a number of transgender men never complete a bottom surgery (no fake penis).  Why? because current bottom surgeries are really ineffective and aesthetically poor.  </p>
<p>the number of commentators rejecting this without thought is fascinating.  does it frighten you that much?</p>
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